How did you find SO SUAVE / What was your status before finding it ?

[Daddy The Pimp]

Lol i was looking on google about HOW TO MAKE MY GIRL WET just by kissing her and i saw an thread of this site " SMELLING WORKS OHHH YEAHH " .

Im glad i found it . Without it i would be an AFC that is being played by womens .

Before finding it i was getting some girls but i was being played by them .
I was a bit natural on my game i was able to attract some womens but noone of them was same level as me .

Now im happy , i never fall to their traps , never eat their sh!t tests .
And im seducing lot of girls now ..

Thanks So Suave . Thanks to every poster here . Cheers up

 

[mpimpin]

I found it by googling kissing tips.

Before SS I was a natural, confident, no problem lining up girls.

SS kinda ruined me before it bettered me. I went through a period where I started relying to heavily on SS and its notions rather then just letting things come naturally anymore. Once I found a way to balance everything and blend it all into my own gut mixed with my brain things are great.

 

[Desdinova]

My fiance had left me, and I wanted answers. I treated her like gold, but she still buggered off. I did a google search for "dating tips" and found http://www.getgirls.com. I began reading like crazy because I was getting some answers, and recalled seeing the term Don Juan many times. Anyway, I did a search for the term, and immediately ended up here. I read EVERY thread in the Tips forum (there was just enough tips back in 2001 that you could read the whole forum in a couple of sittings) and that's how I got the rest of my answers.

 

[KontrollerX]

I was a moderator on another forum and a poster there named New Order posted a link to this place which is how I found it.

Can't thank that guy enough.

This is the best forum community I've ever been a part of and I've been to just about all the popular ones you can think of.

 

[reset]

I was in the middle of a nasty oneitis with a BPD girl and was trying to get my perspective together, a friend told me so suave had a lot of articles on chicks so that's how it started. Read the articles for several months before I decided to join the forum.

Before that I had read the Game and some of David D's newsletters. I used the stuff I learned here with girls at work which isn't the best place to practice but I did anyway.

 

[reset]

Lol, yeah I learned quite a bit here. Now the goal is to translate it to the "outside world".

 

[comic_relief]

I was in 10th grade looking for answers to why my oneitis wouldn't go out with me. I found a couple of websites, then I found this website.

comic_relief

 

[The Forms]

It was fall of 2002 (I had a different user name for a few years). Some girl I had been talking to totally disrespected me (because I was a chump) so I was lurking around girlproblems.com (which I don't think exists anymore. I think loveshack is a good approximation) where the women tell you that you did everything right and the girl is obviously just a ***** no matter HOW AFC you are. One of the posters there made mention of this online community of guys who have this different approach than the guys hanging around gp.com. She said to find them you can google "don juan."

That night I read the dj bible and it completely blew my mind. I knew instantly that I was an AFC, and I learned the mindset of not putting women above you, and being the type of guy who women want.

 

[reset]

I found that I used to do a lot of this stuff by accident when I was 18 and I truly wasn't looking for a gf back then. Ironically, lots of women were interested in me. Something happened over the years and I became AFC for some reason. This site has brought me back to where I should be, and I can't speak highly enough about it.

Exactly what I went through. In high school, and just after, I had a great social life and was always hustling chicks. Hit and miss at that age, but I was out there and being active and had plenty of interest.

I went to college, stopped going out all the time, joined the working world, then yeah. That's that. AFC's ville.

 

[Maxtro]

I don't have a clue how I found this place. It's been a few years. I do know that I was very desperate to get laid and was looking for a quick fix. Unfortunately I didn't find it.

Also unfortunately I haven't gotten a single girl with anything I have learned from here. At least I am learning about why I am not getting any pussy. But that doesn't make it that much better.

 

[navyseal2101]

I met a HB9 that I couldnt talk to or even look in the eyes. I had to have her but b/c of my history with girls I knew I wasn't going to do it without alot of help, and I searched for picking up girls or something and this came up. I went from one of the most made fun of and totally afc in every aspect kid to a solid pua and being friends with basiclly everybody in my school. Before Sosuave I was at the point I was contemplating suicide, ss literally saved my life and now I know that no matter how bad a situation looks, like getting a girl, I can overcome it and it's a good feeling.

 

[Quiksilver]

I was trying to download porn and found this site.





Just kidding... I did a google search because I got stood up by a girl on a first date.

ended up reading the main site until i'd finished atleast half of it(i know, lots of reading), then stumbled on the forums. Before i even registered here, while I was reading the main site, I set myself a little routine of reading one or two articles/tips before going to school in the morning. it helped.

 

[Aboleo]

My brother (who used to post around here under the user name "Spike") directed me to the site several years ago when I was going through a devorce.

I really didn't start learning this stuff until about a year ago, however.

 

[redspicyflag]

Man i was sick of getting shot down

thus i found the rabbit's hole

and dived right in

 

[AgonyUncle]

I had an ex fake a pregnancy, and then the abortion. I moved countries because of her pregnancy. The "abortion" was because she found out I had slept with another women after we broke up. (She dumped me) It was the final straw for me.

I was also a bit of a doormat when I was younger. Now I really dont give a **** what women think these days. Once you realise that half of them are not going to be able to hold an intelligent conversation, you see them as the sex objects that they are. Normally the prettier the girl, the thicker she is. I dont like ugly women. A lifetime of scorn creates a harpie. So accepting that has made it easier. I just treat good looking women like kids now. If they dont like it, the door is open for them to go.

My entire life has changed around the in the last 5 years. Im built like a brick ****house, Im self employed in 4 months time, I have a wider circle or friends and I use my time better. This website helped contribute to that. Not so much in the advice it provided, but in forcing me to question everything and find my own solutions. We really do live in a matrix

Saying that, I have never been and will never be a PUA. I prefer the DJ approach, which is something I strive to be. PUA's are pathetic IMO

 

[SinJester]

I found it like at 13 I think. Really young. I had major onitus and googled stuff like 'dating tips' and what Mctwist was looking for. I think before that or during I asked for tips on like whatever video game forum I was on at the time. lol sad. Of course it seems like I was so young back then, but you always think you are older than you are, when you are young. Then I found actual dating advice forums that were mostly equal parts male and female and asked lame desperate questions and then followed none of the advice.

Anyway I signed up for David DeAngelo's newsletter first. Then I found this somehow. I don't remember exactly how. Then I proceeded to ask lame desperate questions here under a username I don't remember, the kind of posts I would flame myself for now. But somewhere along the line I read the DJ bible and it filled my head with new ideas. Still took a long time to snap out of AFCdom.

Hmm so I've still never had an actual relationship. I can thank myself for that and reading too much and not doing nearly enough. At least I never was a womans b!ch thanks to this website. Gah I wasted so much time thinking 'she looked at me today! does that mean she likes me?' and getting depressed over it. Although I still know guys who do that now, and I guess im a step above them. But still a lot of other people end up in relationships without too much trouble. Never happened to me.

At least recently I'm getting some action. Still need to be able to transition into getting a LTR and doing stuff outside of parties. Makes me wonder what I would be like if I hadn't found this website so young. Almost 17 now and probably still not nearly as old as most of the guys here, or close to the age where people usally find this website.

Glad I'm found it though. It's screwed me up in ways different to what I would have been screwed uo otherwise lol. I'm slowly getting there. The problem is it is far to easy to just keep reading and never do anything. I probably haven't been as good as I think I've been. I don't think 'game' works in early high school.

But at least now I'm set up for life. I never fall head over heals for a girl before I'm with her. I don't end up depressed over a girl. SoSuave helped me improve myself and take up hobbies that are a big part of my life. I think that makes it all worth it.

 

[Kaim Argonar]

Lurked for a long time, decided to post just recently. Still haven't gotten any results, it just seems difficult to find a girl that will fancy you, and on which you can try a trick or two. Very low odds, lots of frustrating attempts that lead to nothing but disappointment. If you don't get any hints that she likes you beforehand, it seems that you're setting yourself up for failure, and you don't really stand a choice but to try these sorts of things blindly when none of them gives you any peculiar signals, so it's kind of a vicious cycle.

At least it's entertaining to read, if only to see the various characters constantly on display who expose their plight. I'd be just as interested to read it when I finally am in a satisfying relationship.

But the tales of the countless brave young men who try every day in stride to better themselves no matter how tedious it is, and who constantly go out and approach females no matter how scornfully and coldly they sometimes are treated, or how dreadful they may feel, only to garner dozens and dozens of rejections, are sure very, very scary and discouraging.

In the end what seems to be novel about this place is the feeling of solidarity. On too many communities the average user will just want to belittle you and feel smug himself, but here people are actually genuinely supportive of each other and wishing for their fellow members' success.

 

[Jitterbug]

I've been a reader for about 18 months but only created an account recently. I was working on self-improvement and just started reading PUA & MRA materials then. Found a link to this site from an MRA blog. I think it was in a post by Pook, of all people. Before I started, I had a few relationships which were not satisfying, and felt that I deserved better but firstly I must bring out my best self. I went through a beginners' hell period with growing pain, but the materials and experience I've read from sites like this one helped a lot and eventually I found some success and it's been on the up ever since.

What I like most about this place is the enlightening threads and how people think and encourage each other to think entirely outside of the frame and rules The Matrix tries to impose on us. I started out just wanting to improve my way with women, but I've found a lot more than that. I'm enjoying every moment of this journey.

 

[thehexman]

All during High School I never had a lot of interest in women. I felt it was better to concentrate on school and on what I wanted to do with my life than get out, drunk, and sleep with a chick so that the whole town would know about it ( I live in a small town).

After school, I had six months time before university started, so I applied for an internship in South America. I got it and fell in love with a woman there, of course I had to leave to go home so I broke my own heart. Dumb and stupid and clueless? Yes.

Then I went to engineering school in an engineering town. Women? Nope. Practically none. At that time I was also very depressed and suicidal because of the whole situation (at some point I will make a longer thread to tell the story) and I searched for self-improvement on the Internet. I found this site through another (non-sexual) self-improvement forum. I read boot camp, read The Book of Pook, read the bible, did it all and I got most of my sh1t together.

 

[MMA Juan]

I found this site from a friend of mine. He told me about it, and i just ridiculed him sayin how can you learn to chat girls up from a forum.

Now this guy was wasn't good witht he ladies. But in about 3 months, i noticed he started pickin up nice chics. So i checked out the site, and that's it began