How did they like it in bed?

[DoubleBarrel]

Hey man,

I'm wondering what your experiences are with how women behave in bed.

It's been my experience that if a chick is outgoing and outspoken socially, she tends to be more passive and submissive between the sheets, while the shy, reserved ones tend to be more active and dominant.

Would you say this has been your experience too?

Also, how dominant do you guys get? What's going too far?

I dated a girl once who enjoyed me pinning her arms above her head or behind her back doggy-style, almost being a little domineering even.

What are your experiences?

Share your sex stories: wild, horror, amazing, etc.

 

[NewToTheGame]

The only difference I have noticed between girls is based on how experienced they are. The really inexperienced girls are content to lay on their backs and do nothing.

ALL of the others I have been with (95%) like it the same way: hard. Not necessarily slapping them in the face, I'm talking more along the lines of hair pulling, choking, ass smacking, and biting. Just generally rough sex. Move them into the positions you want them in.

In missionary, grab them by the back of the neck or top of the head for extra torque, and just bury your d1ck in there as far as it can go. Get them to move with you and it will be better for both. When they are on top, I like to switch between grabbing their t1ts (almost as hard as you can), holding their shoulders and really forcing them down on my d1ck, and grabbing their hair.

Doggy is all about hair grabbing, and occasionally pinning their arms behind them with their face in the pillow. From behind when both of you are on your side is a perfect time to grab her neck. (Right underneath the jaw, any lower is really painful and only good for the super-freaks).

I could go on but you get the idea. Keep in mind I am 6'5" and date mostly petite girls, so that might help make some these ideas easier for me.

About half of them like to talk dirty, which is my favorite quality to find. One girl basically used to deliver a continuous monologue about how she liked getting fvcked by me during sex. I had another who liked to be choked in the "Ass up, face down" position while calling me "daddy". LOL.

 

[Tictac]

Google 'Just F*** Me' from the 'Best of Craig's List'.

It's all right there.

 

[dasein]

It's not easy to generalize here. One generalization I can make is that the more turned on and desiring of sex they are before actually getting in bed, the more uninhibited and secure they tend to be. I ask them at various stages before sex, "what do you want right now?" Until the answer is "take me," "f-ck me," "put your c-ck in me," "feel you deep inside me," or some variation, they need some more juicing up. Even after they say that, make them wait and rachet up the stimuli more for a few minutes. Get them talking and expressive, and they will tell you their level of stimulation. In asking them to verbalize their desires, you are leading them to be uninhibited, plus you will find out kinks such as "bite my nipples hard," "spank my ass," that you might not uncover otherwise with a new woman.

 

[DoubleBarrel]

NewToTheGame,

Thanks for the response, man! It was just the kind of answer I was looking for.

Anymore like that?

 

[gravityeyelids]

Google 'Just F*** Me' from the 'Best of Craig's List'.

It's all right there.

This is Golden.

 

[zinc4]

The only difference I have noticed between girls is based on how experienced they are. The really inexperienced girls are content to lay on their backs and do nothing.

ALL of the others I have been with (95%) like it the same way: hard. Not necessarily slapping them in the face, I'm talking more along the lines of hair pulling, choking, ass smacking, and biting. Just generally rough sex. Move them into the positions you want them in.

In missionary, grab them by the back of the neck or top of the head for extra torque, and just bury your d1ck in there as far as it can go. Get them to move with you and it will be better for both. When they are on top, I like to switch between grabbing their t1ts (almost as hard as you can), holding their shoulders and really forcing them down on my d1ck, and grabbing their hair.

Doggy is all about hair grabbing, and occasionally pinning their arms behind them with their face in the pillow. From behind when both of you are on your side is a perfect time to grab her neck. (Right underneath the jaw, any lower is really painful and only good for the super-freaks).

I could go on but you get the idea. Keep in mind I am 6'5" and date mostly petite girls, so that might help make some these ideas easier for me.

About half of them like to talk dirty, which is my favorite quality to find. One girl basically used to deliver a continuous monologue about how she liked getting fvcked by me during sex. I had another who liked to be choked in the "Ass up, face down" position while calling me "daddy". LOL.

Yep. the ones who talk dirty are the best...talking dirty IMO during sex is a bigger arousal than any single position...just missionary and talking dirty or her on top talking dirty is hard to beat...if she is good at talking dirty that is..

 

[JoeMarron]

Yeah hard, dominating, rough sex plus dirty talk will drive 99.999342% of girls absolutely wild. Sweet gentle love making is practically worthless. Shove her onto the bed. Kiss her hard while tugging on her hair. Tease her with shallow thrusts before pushing yourself in as deep and hard as possible. Hold her hands, pin them over her head and squeeze them hard while you pound her.

zinc4 is right about dirty talk, it takes things to a completely different level. You're definitely missing out if you aren't doing it. I like getting them to tell me how much they're enjoying what I'm doing to them. "You love feeling my c0ck deep in you don't you," "You love getting fvcked hard," "You're ready to come so fvcking hard now aren't you." Not in a question tone but a statement, like I already know what she's gonna say. There's nothing like having a woman tell you how much she loves getting fvcked hard by you while moaning and screaming at the top of her lungs :yes:

 

[Mike32ct]

Yes, making HER TALK DIRTY is the biggest turn on for her.

It's the whole taboo of her VERBALIZING her dirty thoughts and feelings.

 

[skinnyguy]

All girls want to be treated like wh0res in the bedroom. Especially the shy ones. The outgoing/hot ones are so used to getting a d_ck rammed in them that they don't care.

 

[NewJack]

The most amazing thing I found about sex was that if you feel some real love for a woman, as in you actually love her, and you let her know it physically via lovemaking - through your eye contact, touch, attention, kisses, etc. - if you express it physically during lovemaking, that woman will love you, in some way, for the rest of her life. You can open a door that will never, ever close - and doesn't need to.

Even if you break up with her, or whatever, if you give her a couple of those "moments", she'll never speak bad about you or treat you badly. They are so grateful for experiencing something like that, its like you will remain friends and respect each other forever, because you had a couple of those 'moments'. I can't necessarily explain what I mean.

Its in fact much more special than what I was able to describe here. Its probably the greatest thing I've ever experienced. Sharing real love during physical love-making feels like you are Jesus performing a miracle. Its blowing my mind just reliving it mentally.

 

[NewJack]

Tbh lovemaking just sounds like boring sex to me.

My most mind blowing experience was a cocaine fuelled threesome with 2 glamour girls (paid)

I really am going to he'll.

Haha. Well, your experience sounds pretty damn awesome in its own right.

 

[zinc4]

The most amazing thing I found about sex was that if you feel some real love for a woman, as in you actually love her, and you let her know it physically via lovemaking - through your eye contact, touch, attention, kisses, etc. - if you express it physically during lovemaking, that woman will love you, in some way, for the rest of her life. You can open a door that will never, ever close - and doesn't need to.

Even if you break up with her, or whatever, if you give her a couple of those "moments", she'll never speak bad about you or treat you badly. They are so grateful for experiencing something like that, its like you will remain friends and respect each other forever, because you had a couple of those 'moments'. I can't necessarily explain what I mean.

Its in fact much more special than what I was able to describe here. Its probably the greatest thing I've ever experienced. Sharing real love during physical love-making feels like you are Jesus performing a miracle. Its blowing my mind just reliving it mentally.

Hahahaha...prepare to be ruthlessly flamed.

But I actually have experienced what you are talking about with 2 different old GFs...and yeah, what you said about the connection and forever stuff, is true. It's different than just sex and you both can feel it......

That's being said....i still can't help but longing for casual sex with strange woman after strange woman.

 

[Zarky]

I don't like dirty talking because it means I have to think and when I have sex I want to feel.

 

[dasein]

I don't like dirty talking because it means I have to think and when I have sex I want to feel.

Fair enough, but it's not discussing theoretical physics or ontology. How much critical thinking does "grind that c-ck!" or "f-ck that p-ssy!" require exactly?

 

[Bible_Belt]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133284

The girl that post is about is now a successful attorney. And she's married. Her husband seems like the nice guy provider type. I wonder if she ever told him she was into suffocation.

 

[Zarky]

Fair enough, but it's not discussing theoretical physics or ontology. How much critical thinking does "grind that c-ck!" or "f-ck that p-ssy!" require exactly?

Not much, but more than I want to give it. When I'm really into the sex I literally can't string two words together.