"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I was on a Tinder date with a girl I actually knew from high school. Things escalated into me giving her back rub. Suddenly she got up left said "this isn't working out. Sorry I have to go" and then she left. I didn't do anything wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe she actually had a boyfriend.

Who knows. I think that whatever happened, she rationalized that having sex with you was a bad idea. So she left. I wouldn't lose sleep over it... most women who have bailed on me like that, when things started escalating, were ridden with guilt or still in love with their ex to a crazy extent. The issue is on her and it happens from time to time. Regardless of how tight you and your game are, sex requires two people.
 
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