"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How did I handle this ?

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I added this girl (8.5) on Facebook about 2 years ago , back then we were both in a relationship and the mistake I made was not asking her to meet in person or do anything together , my AFC self used to text and fb msg most times.

Anyways , after my horrible relationship failed , I went off the grid and deleted my Facebook and changed number. After 8 months I decided to go back on last week. And she liked a few of my new pictures. So I started to msg her.
Now at this point , don't even care about rejection ...watching some Corey Wayne and went with his method of if a girl throws her self in your orbit just go ahead and arrange plans.

Me: Hey , how have you been ? Long time !
Her : Yeah I'm good just enjoying the summer so was hectic, I know it's been really long ! How about you ?
Me: oh yeah , was it your first year at uni ? & good just working hard as usual and trying to make the best of the summer as well.
Her: No , it wasn't lool. Oh okay okay that's good
Me : oh damnn ( emoticon) & when are you free , we can grabs some drinks or catch a movie since we never actually met in person
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She didn't read it yet , I just wanted to know her interest level. Obviously if high she will give a day or counter of some sort. If she doesn't reply then I know to just ignore and not msg her again.

@backseat yes , I erased everything on my old phone but close friends and my co workers.
 
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