How did I handle this flake?

[lamontbrown]

So I slept with this girl last week first night we were alone...met her few times prior through my cousins gf...vibed nicely and im interested

Texted her monday to make plans for thursday....wednesday afternoon rolls around and she tells me she cant make it thursday cuz she has a friend coming in from upstate (sounds like bs) but asked what i was doing friday

i told her im booked up all weekend and ill hit her up next week to which she didnt reply

was i being petty or do you think move was justified? i dont like people in general thinking they can just flake and have me jump at whatever they decide?

looking for input thanks boys

 

[Heisenberg]

So, she gave you a counter-offer and you essentially turned it down. You overgamed yourself. Seems to be a trend on here these days.

 

[lamontbrown]

So, she gave you a counter-offer and you essentially turned it down. You overgamed yourself. Seems to be a trend on here these days.

turned it down nicely...i said sorry hun i already had things going on this weekend (which i do, although very casual) and ill hit her up next week.....i thought if i agreed to her suggestion it would look kind of needy?

 

[Krueg]

Not everything on this website is set in stone, you can bend things around to work into your game. You've already had sex with her, she could genuinely have a friend coming over who she hasnt seen in awhile. Sounds like she wants to see you still, which is why she counter offered. I wouldnt "Next" her yet or anything but, give it another shot.

 

[lamontbrown]

Not everything on this website is set in stone, you can bend things around to work into your game. You've already had sex with her, she could genuinely have a friend coming over who she hasnt seen in awhile. Sounds like she wants to see you still, which is why she counter offered. I wouldnt "Next" her yet or anything but, give it another shot.

makes sense...but i literally hooked up with her last week...being busy for a weekend and coming back couldnt hurt right? I dont like people thinking they cancel on me like that...especially since a friend coming to visit from a city almost 4 hours away isnt something you randomly find out 2 days prior in the middle of the week imo

 

[Krueg]

If she really likes you she will wait. If she keeps counter offering or giving you a run around, you know she aint that interested and you'll just have to move on to some new blood!

 

[Bingo-Player]

Personally i think you handled it well , shes already given up her main asset which was her pussvy so in theory you should hold more cards than she does

I think the counter offer from her was pretty empty anyway

chick has medium - low interest but youve fvcked her anyway so who cares ?

give her one last shot next week if shes still BS then she gets a big fat NEXT

 

[sylvester the cat]

you did fine. probably just testing to see how desperate you were anyway.