"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how 'crazy' are you to approach

KneghtRyder

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Just wondering how much out of your way do you go to get in promixity to approach a girl..

basically I had this thought when I was driving this morning and I saw this hb , but I was in the car and she was walking, so I thought I could park quickly and walk the other way..

That would have been smart to do but I didnt..

Anyone else this 'aggressive', this 'quick to get the logistics down to approach' ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One time I was driving down the street and I saw a HB standing at the bus stop. I turned around and parked at a Wendy's. Then I walked to the bus stop and talked to the girl, got her #, and went on a couple dates.

I was just crazy back then. It took a near death experience to make me like that. It shouldn't take death to make us want to approach like that.

We should just do it anyway.
 

KneghtRyder

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Beast from the East said:
We should just do it anyway.
I agree. I mean, its tough finding a girl that s attractive so even if its a matter of logistics then who cares..
 

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Lol. Man, sometimes a bad pick up feels like a near death experiance BFTE. But anyways, how do you get that. Like I got no real approach anxiety anymore, but I think I got approach lazyiness... I see sets all the time and though I know it would be fun to open them I just go... Ohhhgggg... LAZY.... and you end up doing nothing. It's real horrible. Anyways, I think the only way you can get to that point is basically convincing yourself that if you don't something horrible like cancer will happen. I dunno.
 

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Miguel said:
Lol. Man, sometimes a bad pick up feels like a near death experiance BFTE. But anyways, how do you get that. Like I got no real approach anxiety anymore, but I think I got approach lazyiness... I see sets all the time and though I know it would be fun to open them I just go... Ohhhgggg... LAZY.... and you end up doing nothing. It's real horrible. Anyways, I think the only way you can get to that point is basically convincing yourself that if you don't something horrible like cancer will happen. I dunno.
Sometimes I feel like this but then I say to myself "Do it for your c0k."
Once I do the first approach it always gives me enough energy to keep the ball rolling.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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