"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how could i not close!!

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So recently i have been reading the game. i have only made it threw the first 80 pages and prematurely used one of the pickup lines with no idea how to close it. I was with my wing at a clothing store and he grabbed a sweater vest about the same time a hb7 walked around the corner. I asked her if she thought the shirt would be appropriate for the Maury show. We talked for 5 min or so and after the opener was done i had no idea where to take the convo to close. Any ideas
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kiddenvy said:
So recently i have been reading the game. i have only made it threw the first 80 pages and prematurely used one of the pickup lines with no idea how to close it. I was with my wing at a clothing store and he grabbed a sweater vest about the same time a hb7 walked around the corner. I asked her if she thought the shirt would be appropriate for the Maury show. We talked for 5 min or so and after the opener was done i had no idea where to take the convo to close. Any ideas

Man, shouldn't that just come natural? Sometimes I think I had more confidence before I came here. Seriously, what did they do in the 1960's? I know they didn't come here looking for advice on every little thing to do!
 

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"ok I gotta run now, hey you seem pretty cool, give me your phone number"

GEE THAT WAS HARD
 

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Rhino22 said:
Man, shouldn't that just come natural? Sometimes I think I had more confidence before I came here. Seriously, what did they do in the 1960's? I know they didn't come here looking for advice on every little thing to do!
Websites like this didn't exist bac- What did guys do in the 60's? Oh yeah, they got off their ass and did what the fuck they needed to do! They weren't scared! They thought like Nike! Just do it. You may have stiff competition, you may not be a male model, you may not be a millionaire, you may have an entry level position. WTF are you worried about? She'll shoot you down? Maybe.

Luther Vandross said that "Don't care if I get rejected, at least then I won't regret it!"

Let this marinate.

Read my sig.

Understand it.

Case closed.
 

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Tell her to give you her number, and pass her your phone.

Just don't act like it's a big deal, stutter when you say it, etc. Be casual, get some practice on several women, and it won't be much of a big deal. If you're comfortable with it, it will show through your actions.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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