"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How could I have improved?

Konada

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About 2 weeks ago I set up a date with a HB8 from tinder but she flaked with an excuse of celebrating her friend's end of finals, 2 days before our date. No biggie, I let a week blow over and ask her to join me for a drink last Saturday, she says 'I'll see if I can join you' and convo dies down.

Saturday comes, she texts me:

HB8: Are you still drinking tonight?
Konada: Yep. Wear something cute ;)
HB8: I'll see if I can join you cos i'm out with friends, I'll come if they end early
HB8: You're drinking regardless whether I come right?
Konada: Yep, see you.
HB8: Who's going?
Konada: Just me
HB8: LOL you're drinking alone?
Konada: Well a man occasionally needs his own solitude...
HB8: Yeah I get it I need me time as well
HB8: Seems like you're drowning your sorrows haha
Konada: Yep get ready for a bucket of tears tonight ;) I'll see you then
HB8: I'll let you know again
Konada: Sure

<Roughly about 45 mins after I reached the place and was kicking it with a buddy of mine>

HB8: Hey, I'm still out with my friends i can't join you tonight. Enjoy drinking!!!
Konada: Np. Enjoy your night!
HB8: Thank you :)

Initial assessment of girl: Princess syndrome, used to males pandering over her, constantly trying to grab frame.

Plan of Action:
Wait for her to reach out, and then give her the whole 'I'm not so sure about meeting after the last 2 times, provided you are REALLY free on that day.' line.

Many would cite the 2 strikes rule, however I'm interested to know how I could have improved and game her. I want to sex her up, at the same time I'm okay if it doesn't happen. Cheers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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marmel75

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I would have just said I was out with a few buddies and then if she came just said he ended up leaving or some BS...

I don't think she is really interested, not worth your time pursuing IMHO.
 

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Two and done.

She's AW'ing you. She likes that you are chasing her. It makes her feel good.

Otherwise, she's not interested.

If she doesn't reach out to you, be done with her. Don't call her.
 
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