Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
I went out to a salsa bar tonight with a friend of mine, let's call him A.
By coincidence, another friend (let's call him B) was there too, and he was with a VERY CUTE girl. So he asked me and A to join them at their very small table, basically a table of 4.
Then we had the usual introduction and chatting. The girl turned out to be a friend of B, although not a very close one. From my observation, B was basically macking on the girl. He was very subtle and non-agressive, but I could tell what he was doing.
But after some time, I realized that the girl was more interested in me than in B or A. We would have EC all the time. And just to play with it a little bit, I would hold EC as long as she holds it. And it just keeps holding ... I would break it when it becomes obviously "embarrassing". Because remember, we were four sitting at the same table, next to each other.
But for one time, I just wanted to see how far this could go so I held the EC and held it and held it some more. It was so long that even pretending not seeing anything was no more an option for A and especially B, so they looked at her, and then looked at me, at this moment I broke the EC for "politeness" reasons.
We were not really dancing, but we would move a little bit to the music from time to time on our chairs . Once I was doing this "innocent" and "childish" moves on the music, basically moving around my forearms a little bit, you know. And the girl would start imitating me and then she gradually slid the movements into her hips , she ended up shaking her ass on the chair. And the whole time, she was holding EC and smiling at me.
She's not the type of flirty girl, so at this moment I said to myself "ok, I get it, this girl wants me." .
But there's the MAJOR problem: she was B's "girl". They are not girlfriend or boyfriend or anything, but she was definitely his target. We would have had more space or we would have been dancing and stuff, I would have known how to handle this. But we were sitting at a table, not even 2 feet away from each other.
And the worst part: at the end of the night, B was supposed to drop her off at her place, so I didn't even get a chance to ask for her number without disrespecting B.
I'm a little disappointed, but what's more is that I'd like to know how you guys would have handled the situation. Because I still can't think of a better way to handle the situation. I think I did what I could, within limits of decency and respectability of course...
Some input would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
By coincidence, another friend (let's call him B) was there too, and he was with a VERY CUTE girl. So he asked me and A to join them at their very small table, basically a table of 4.
Then we had the usual introduction and chatting. The girl turned out to be a friend of B, although not a very close one. From my observation, B was basically macking on the girl. He was very subtle and non-agressive, but I could tell what he was doing.
But after some time, I realized that the girl was more interested in me than in B or A. We would have EC all the time. And just to play with it a little bit, I would hold EC as long as she holds it. And it just keeps holding ... I would break it when it becomes obviously "embarrassing". Because remember, we were four sitting at the same table, next to each other.
But for one time, I just wanted to see how far this could go so I held the EC and held it and held it some more. It was so long that even pretending not seeing anything was no more an option for A and especially B, so they looked at her, and then looked at me, at this moment I broke the EC for "politeness" reasons.
We were not really dancing, but we would move a little bit to the music from time to time on our chairs . Once I was doing this "innocent" and "childish" moves on the music, basically moving around my forearms a little bit, you know. And the girl would start imitating me and then she gradually slid the movements into her hips , she ended up shaking her ass on the chair. And the whole time, she was holding EC and smiling at me.
She's not the type of flirty girl, so at this moment I said to myself "ok, I get it, this girl wants me." .
But there's the MAJOR problem: she was B's "girl". They are not girlfriend or boyfriend or anything, but she was definitely his target. We would have had more space or we would have been dancing and stuff, I would have known how to handle this. But we were sitting at a table, not even 2 feet away from each other.
And the worst part: at the end of the night, B was supposed to drop her off at her place, so I didn't even get a chance to ask for her number without disrespecting B.
I'm a little disappointed, but what's more is that I'd like to know how you guys would have handled the situation. Because I still can't think of a better way to handle the situation. I think I did what I could, within limits of decency and respectability of course...
Some input would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks