"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How could I have done better here?

Locogooner

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I was dancing with these two chicks for like 5 minutes and never made a move on both.

They told me that I was the only boy that could dance at the party.

Should I have isolated one that was more interested?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mike32ct

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While it's great to give attention to both girls, such as dancing with both, you must chose a target. Otherwise, you can end up in friendzone with both of them. You become their gay buddy.

Take them off the dance floor to get a drink. Keep your arm around your target. You still need to talk to the other girl so she doesn't feel left out, but you MUST make it clear (non-verbally) which one you like. Having your arm around her is one way.

Then when the other girl goes to the bathroom/toilet, you can go for a quick makeout with your target. Then she knows you want her, but you are showing some discretion because her friend is there. She'll appreciate that.
 

bigneil

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Honestly, the cheek kiss is so nonchalant you should try it with every girl. That let's you know how they feel in a hurry. Often they turn their head so you kiss their lips "by mistake". It should only take 5 minutes of conversation to feel comfortable kissing them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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