"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How could I have done better here?

Locogooner

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I was dancing with these two chicks for like 5 minutes and never made a move on both.

They told me that I was the only boy that could dance at the party.

Should I have isolated one that was more interested?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mike32ct

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While it's great to give attention to both girls, such as dancing with both, you must chose a target. Otherwise, you can end up in friendzone with both of them. You become their gay buddy.

Take them off the dance floor to get a drink. Keep your arm around your target. You still need to talk to the other girl so she doesn't feel left out, but you MUST make it clear (non-verbally) which one you like. Having your arm around her is one way.

Then when the other girl goes to the bathroom/toilet, you can go for a quick makeout with your target. Then she knows you want her, but you are showing some discretion because her friend is there. She'll appreciate that.
 

bigneil

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Honestly, the cheek kiss is so nonchalant you should try it with every girl. That let's you know how they feel in a hurry. Often they turn their head so you kiss their lips "by mistake". It should only take 5 minutes of conversation to feel comfortable kissing them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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