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Locogooner

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I was dancing with these two chicks for like 5 minutes and never made a move on both.

They told me that I was the only boy that could dance at the party.

Should I have isolated one that was more interested?
 

Mike32ct

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While it's great to give attention to both girls, such as dancing with both, you must chose a target. Otherwise, you can end up in friendzone with both of them. You become their gay buddy.

Take them off the dance floor to get a drink. Keep your arm around your target. You still need to talk to the other girl so she doesn't feel left out, but you MUST make it clear (non-verbally) which one you like. Having your arm around her is one way.

Then when the other girl goes to the bathroom/toilet, you can go for a quick makeout with your target. Then she knows you want her, but you are showing some discretion because her friend is there. She'll appreciate that.
 

bigneil

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Honestly, the cheek kiss is so nonchalant you should try it with every girl. That let's you know how they feel in a hurry. Often they turn their head so you kiss their lips "by mistake". It should only take 5 minutes of conversation to feel comfortable kissing them.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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