“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Buck Naked

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Last night i went to a outdoor concert at a bar with a friend of mine (female) bc she knew the band. While we were there we had drinks withthe band during their intermission and all that good stuff. When they can back to play i noticed a tall blonde with legs like a thero-bred horse. She was a dynamite of a broad. We masde EC and i smiled at her but didnt feel right going in bc she was near many girl friends of hers. 10 min later i saw her and one of her friends near the fence and her friend was on her cell so i took that opportunity bc the friend was occupied wit the phone. So, I went over, said hi to the blonde and asked her if she wanted to mee the band after the concert. To my surprise, she lives next door to one of the band members. She knew their names and everything. Then she said she was about to leave tp i indroduced myslef to her. Her name was Katie. When they were walking out she did wave and smile at me, so i found that exteremly geniune of her. My question, was there a time when i should have gone for the number. If u need more info to answer this, just ask me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It sounds like she was just being nice. Did you have any level of rapport with her, what was her body language like?

I never judge a girls interest on her words alone, try to pay attentions to her actions and be more aware of her bodylanguage. If she wanted to see you again she probably would have hinted or indirectly said something as a way for you's two to get together again.

But, it all comes down to how you made her feel and how attracted she was to you. I personally never ask for numbers (unless they are real shy).

btw, how long was the conversation, who did most of the talking and did u talk about boring/lame **** or were you c&f?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Buck Naked
My question, was there a time when i should have gone for the number. If u need more info to answer this, just ask me.
Question:When you found out how much she was into music, why didn't you use this information to make up a reason to see her again? Like to go to a concert or her taking you to see one of her favorite bands? What was her interest level?
 
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