"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How could he be this cold?
- Thread starter Lishy
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJism is not about attracting women. It is about self-improvement.panosha said:It's obvious that someone sent him/her.
So who sent you? How much are they paying you?:crackup: :crackup:
Seriously, how does this topic have anything with attracting women?
You kids have a LOT to learn.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Chick dumps guy for being errr....cold? Pfffft Not in this lifetime mate.
Or locked.
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period!!!
no other comments, guys...
just to so called GOOD GUYS, would you have been so soft to your male buddy? I dont think so. You would just have said "move on, buddy, its life" thats at least how normal straight guys act. Dont Be a Emotional Tampon to a Lady! You become a Girlfriend with a Penis, not a GOOD GUY!
iqqi
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Do NOT get suckered into thinking boobs means what he says. He has a soft spot for chicks. I know this now FOR A FACT cuz he contru=ibuted to this RANDOM A$$ THREAD. And he contributes to about 2 threads out of 1000 a week.
That says a lot.
Besides all his "ay matey get a life besides random hoolahs"
he is a softy, I know this.
It's a shame he said some dumb sh@t this time around. This thread is nothing but common sense (your BF is a douche, sorry bout your friend) and stupid sh!t by the SAME two or whatever posters (OMG A GIRL!!! Don't comfort her! ewww cooties!) .. and then boobs. SAD.
After reading this I am upset by ppl posting, wtf is wrong with you guys? Anyone notice the date she started this thread? A couple days ago. I myself came here for support and wisdom from fellow members. Post your b.s. on another thread IMO
penkitten
Master Don Juan
so much wisdom in this one sentence.Latinoman said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonGorgon
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Translation - "I have turned my emotional switch to the off position on the advice of some internet AFC's...LOLLishy said:
What do you know? You live in a Country that still forces teenagers to married old men and that treat women like second class citizens.schttrj said:
And I did not say "good guy"...I said "good Man".
Next time a friend of yours loses his daughter or son to sickness...make sure you tell him "move on, buddy, its life".
Pathetic.
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
Alot of you should be god damned ashamed of what you have said but the truth is that those boys are too damn stupid to even see it!
You can lead a horse to water, but you cant make it drink eh!
I want to say thank you to every person who has helped me and to the others I leave this message .... Kiss my:moon:
EricInTheHouse
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Oh man... Tony would give you an infraction for that ,eh Lishy?..LOL...Lishy said:
I haven't read through this thread, but seems it's taken a course for the worse....That seems to happen in all forums...
Hope things get better, Lishy...
Do you even know who I am, lol.. I hope not!:crazy:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
You have the same name at LS dont you?EricInTheHouse said:
Some of the boys on here are just deplorable! I would be so ashamed if my son turned out like them!
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
Be careful what you say hon, they may come for you too lolMavrick said:
EricInTheHouse
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Kind of, but I don't use that name I had on LS anymore.Lishy said:
So far everyone here is ok to me, and the moderators are ok too... Both you and I know that I had a problem with a moderator on LS..
Kinda nice to be on a forum and not get infracted for going offtopic in a friggin offtopic forum, lol... Getting those infractions slapped in my face everytime I signed in were getting annoying... Got one for embedding a fart noise in a thread.....pfffftttt..
I miss everyone there though... They have really actually helped me from what they told me back then, even if it didn't seem like it..
Say Hi to WWIU, and TBF for me please.. I met some of the LS'rs here, but I can't tell who, because they want to be secret. I'm sure you know all the ones that are here...
positivity_injection
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this is not a woman's forum
the real men here dont CARE about your issues.....we all know that death is serious and should be handled as such......but in a forum that is meant for seducing women and ****ing them, this kind of thread is useless, why would you ever dare post this?
you need to vent to your real life friends, nobody online wants to talk to you about this unless they are chumps who want to fulfill a woman's attention online on a seduction board for men (sounds weird when put that way doesnt it?)
If you look at Lishy's other posts, you'll see that she's made a lot of good contributions. And even if she hadn't, just because we practice DJism doesn't mean we can't be civil to each other.positivity_injection said:
To paraphrase latinoman, there's a very long way between realizing that you shouldn't just be a nice guy, and being a good man. Some guys on this forum seem to be trapped in the middle of the prick phase. It's nothing to be proud of and you shouldn't be trying to imitate them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.