"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Complex is your game?

So what's the score?

  • Forget that! I have ZERO game.

    Votes: 6 18.2%
  • I do things instinctively and do pretty well.

    Votes: 8 24.2%
  • I plan things from time to time but often fall back on instinct.

    Votes: 16 48.5%
  • I strategize things from wire to wire. My devious plans DOMINATE my world.

    Votes: 2 6.1%
  • It's so complex. I need a war room and a generals to keep it straight.

    Votes: 1 3.0%

  • Total voters
    33

PRMoon

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This is is so subjective it can't really be taken seriously. That's why i'm posting it in the AE section. But lets hear what you guys think about your game. Or you can just arbitrarily vote for humor purposes.

Here we go people.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skilla_Staz

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I picked the third one. Theres time when I think things through, and plan how I'm going to act, or whats going to happen. 75% of the time though I just wing it. I seem to do better when I go based on instinct anyways.
 

Create Reality

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MY game is like World War 2 and Im bringin it like Ike so I'll take the war room baby!
 

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I used to read the latest technique on this forum and rush to the bar to try it, but lately I've gone off techniques altogether.

Now when I see a girl who seems cool, I just strike up a conversation randomly. I don't even do stuff like look for interest signals, plan an approach, or think about what I'm going to say. Even if they have a guy holding their hand, I'll talk to both of them.

Even though this has seriously reduced my success rate, for some reason I'm enjoying it. Its like I'm suddenly flying free, without caring where I end up.

That probably sounded really corny, but hey ;)
 

THE_ADDMAN

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some planning is ideal, but you need to be able to function if plans go bad, or circumstances arise that you didnt plan for.

nice poll.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PRMoon

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Bump.

I'm reviving this one for voting purposes.
 

Bonez

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Thanks for bumping.

Usually the only plan I go in with is "hey theres a hot chick over there, I wonder if shes drunk enough for me to take advantage of yet".

Kidding, I plan on being cool, and not giving up my attention to a girl until I'm sure I've got hers first. If that means play ganji until she smiles immeditately in the first second I look at her than so be it. I don't like cold approaching, I warm approach. So I plan on talking to somebody near my target first and getting a short laugh in before I move in to see her. Other than that, no plan.

What kind of planning were you talking about?
 

PRMoon

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It's pretty open really. Do you plan gaming in the short term, like approaches or before going into a club or a ba?, Do you plan for long term gaming like gaming more then one or more girls for extended periods of time? Do your friends play a role in your scheming? Do you Spend hours at night thinking about different ways to game girls?

Anything. Your overall game. How deep do you get with it?
 

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Just natural, be the confident hero women like.
Sometimes I experiment with a technique if it appeals to me but basicly just having a damn good time and apply the basic principles like DHV, Neg/C+F, Comfortable body language, letting her win you over and off course anticipation & building sexual tension.
The techniques flow from the mindset, so it doesn't really matter what you do, but how you do it.
 

PRMoon

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Bump.

I just realized i'm a "Field Marshall" when it comes to the game by one of my wings. I direct the game of others as well as mine extremely well on the fly. I got another big night comming up tomorrow so I hope he's right.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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