how come ....

[TheMale]

that i dont get as much as i need to, a positive response to sexualisation ?
i mean i use innuendo, sometimes im goin straight like 'lucky me i didnt took you to bed, i'm sure you wanted to sado maso me'
and i dont see a lot of response, sure i have but not much.

sure it can be lack of attraction, but why she's talking to me, we are we laughing ?

 

[LostAndConfused]

Well what the hell does "sado maso" mean? That could be your problem.

But why does "that one guy" pull off innuendo where you can't?

Check the body language, and his behavior right after he says it. ****y, confident smirk, words spoken boldly? Yeah, it goes off much better. You'd be surprised the difference, all on your delivery of the line!

Like a good rapper has flow, like a good comedian has a solid punchline, so too must your innuendo have the same fire. Check it, even when the confident man's innuendo DOESN'T fly true (and it doesn't sometimes), his standing in the conversation doesn't even drop! Does yours? Work on that delivery.

Good responses from girls include:
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*Solid, heavy IOI (hair brush, smile, laugh, eyes flicker)
*She moves closer
*She touches or playfully hits you
*She makes out with you on the spot.

 

[TheMale]

you don't know what sado maso is ?!
ok let's say 'bondage' for the example.

i get IOI but it doesnt really go further.
she's laughing.
she's hitting me.
and that's it, she dont make it obvious she's attracted to me excepted these IOIs. and i can tell when a chick is attracted to me because i'm in the game, PUA though (maybe my problem comes from here), for 2 years

i'll try the body language and vocal tone thing and tell you how's it worked.
how can i work my delivery ? some video to watch, some advice you can give me, some reference to read ???

 

[TheMale]

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