"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How come we don't ask daddy for advice?!

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*This question only applies to those that grew up with there father's. I mean no disrespect to those who did not grow up with one.*

I thought about this...Our fathers somehow got with our mom's right? Have any of you ever tried asking your dad's how they got with mom? They must have done something! Simply put, why dont we ask our dad's for advice to see what they say, or if it matches with advice given here at Sosuave. Maybe our fathers were somehow founders of this place? =P
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I ask my father for advice, all the time. He knows exactly what's up, and has a good answer for any situation.... my mistake was taking my mom's advice, when i was younger. That's where it all went wrong.
 

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Well, my dad raised me as an AFC. But i have learned from him because he is really funny (thankfully) and he can carry out a great conversation. For the rest of the things I ask my best friend's dad, cause he is a pimp
 

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I'm in the same boat as Bad Ass, mums info when I was younger almost screwed me up, my old man and my uncle have given me the best advice sometimes, hell my uncle even said they are easy creatures once you learn the right buttons.
 

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I've been more successful than my dad ever was with girls, but whether I want to admit it or not, he's always got some good advice. Using your dad for advice is probably one of the #1 things guys don't do that they should. It build a stronger relationship and they are bound to have more experience than you in most areas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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typical said:
they are easy creatures once you learn the right buttons.
I love that saying! But anyways, Ive always wanted to talk to my dad about this kinda sh!t but ive been hesitant. Its kinda weird having a talk about how to pimp girls with your dad you know what I mean? But yea, Ive always had the feeling that once I do decide to go and ask him for advice that I just might learn some ground breaking stuff.
 
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