"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How come they don't stay interested?!

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LostAndConfused said:
Sweet post man. What made you get to that turning point? I know its different for everyone who ventures down this path but what about you?
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Basically I've made it my goal to keep improving and thats what I've done. I used to think I was unlucky but as soon as I realised theres no such thing as luck thats the turning point for me.
 
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Well, while you are filtering them, they are also filtering you. So some of the things you talked about MAY have caused them to start losing interest.

I met a woman from Boston this summer and we did an imitation of rabbits for the weekend. As we talked and I spent more time with her, the following came out. She came from an abusive family,her bf of 14 years cheated on her after she did all this stuff for him,her husband was gay[she made him alot of money in realestate,but didn't take any of it from him],her next bf was a manipulating azz who never wanted to see his kids[she knew them better than he did]. ETC. ETC. Now, I was sympathetic and talked to her[so she kept talking],we laughed etc.;BUT, I gradually eased out of her life.

Any older DJ's want to count the red flags she just spilled during conversation?

Thats why I wondered what you were talking about-there are different standards for a 1 night stand vs a possible relationship. If she's just looking for sex,you can talk about anything. If she's looking for the father of her children,she may want to know if heart disease runs in your family. conversation importance is relative depending on what she wants in the relationship
 
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