"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How come shy girls have so many friends?

TKool

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I've heard girls say "I don't make friends easily" or "I'm shy"... but they have tons of friends and 99% of the times a boyfriend too.

What's the difference between a shy guy and girl?
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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TKool said:
I've heard girls say "I don't make friends easily" or "I'm shy"... but they have tons of friends and 99% of the times a boyfriend too.

What's the difference between a shy guy and girl?

Maybe if she's hot that my be a big part of it

Guys who want to hit it and girls how want to look like her( or maybe even fvck her too, depending on the girl)

A lot of times no one says, "I have tons of friends". Most peoples definition of friend is also different.

I was a shy guy in highschool, but I still had tons of guys I hung out with, Yet I only considered like 3 to be my friends
 

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as long as a girl is cute/hot and nice, she'll have many friends, no matter how shy she might be

this i've seen many times
 

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Kerpal said:
+1

Regardless of her personality, as long as a girl is good looking, she'll have guys and girls clamoring for her attention.

Shy guys on the other hand are completely ****ed.
Guys have it so hard....sometimes.
 
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