"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how come only married women or women who just got pregnant are interested in me

foreverAFC

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i dont understand it, but every woman who shows me any interest or IOIs turns out to be married or just recently knocked up, im sick of it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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foreverAFC said:
every woman who shows me any interest or IOIs turns out to be married
At a genetic level, the holy grail of pickup is to impregnate a woman and have her beta provider raise the kid. This is pretty much the biological definition of an alpha male. I don't see what you're worried about.

Ignore the ones who are pregnant though. Totally pointless, unless you're into that sort of kink.
 

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You probably come across as near full blown 'AFC'

Sorry, women who wants to settle down will typically look for AFC-type of men that doesn't game them, especially when they have kid(s). Other qualities they look for in a 'daddy' provider is good job, financially secure, giver (not receiver LOL), and won't have the capacity to game other women because it is not in his blood.

Once you change those qualities to non-AFC (a part of becoming a DJ is to REJECT preggies!), you won't even have questions like this one.

Raise your standards, and change your belief system that you can't do any better than Preggies.

Exodus
 

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GotED? said:
You probably come across as near full blown 'AFC'

Sorry, women who wants to settle down will typically look for AFC-type of men that doesn't game them, especially when they have kid(s). Other qualities they look for in a 'daddy' provider is good job, financially secure, giver (not receiver LOL), and won't have the capacity to game other women because it is not in his blood.

Once you change those qualities to non-AFC (a part of becoming a DJ is to REJECT preggies!), you won't even have questions like this one.

Raise your standards, and change your belief system that you can't do any better than Preggies.

Exodus
i dont go after these women, they come on to me while im at work. im assuming their husbands/bfs are afc/beta providers if they need to get ego boosts from me, im in good shape but im not attractive, i cant imagine how these married women would act around a guy who looked like a pro bodybuilder or abercrombie model.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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