"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how come only married women or women who just got pregnant are interested in me

foreverAFC

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i dont understand it, but every woman who shows me any interest or IOIs turns out to be married or just recently knocked up, im sick of it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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foreverAFC said:
every woman who shows me any interest or IOIs turns out to be married
At a genetic level, the holy grail of pickup is to impregnate a woman and have her beta provider raise the kid. This is pretty much the biological definition of an alpha male. I don't see what you're worried about.

Ignore the ones who are pregnant though. Totally pointless, unless you're into that sort of kink.
 

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You probably come across as near full blown 'AFC'

Sorry, women who wants to settle down will typically look for AFC-type of men that doesn't game them, especially when they have kid(s). Other qualities they look for in a 'daddy' provider is good job, financially secure, giver (not receiver LOL), and won't have the capacity to game other women because it is not in his blood.

Once you change those qualities to non-AFC (a part of becoming a DJ is to REJECT preggies!), you won't even have questions like this one.

Raise your standards, and change your belief system that you can't do any better than Preggies.

Exodus
 

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GotED? said:
You probably come across as near full blown 'AFC'

Sorry, women who wants to settle down will typically look for AFC-type of men that doesn't game them, especially when they have kid(s). Other qualities they look for in a 'daddy' provider is good job, financially secure, giver (not receiver LOL), and won't have the capacity to game other women because it is not in his blood.

Once you change those qualities to non-AFC (a part of becoming a DJ is to REJECT preggies!), you won't even have questions like this one.

Raise your standards, and change your belief system that you can't do any better than Preggies.

Exodus
i dont go after these women, they come on to me while im at work. im assuming their husbands/bfs are afc/beta providers if they need to get ego boosts from me, im in good shape but im not attractive, i cant imagine how these married women would act around a guy who looked like a pro bodybuilder or abercrombie model.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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