"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how come Im happy?

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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I've read here that women are not the most important thing in life. Ok, I fully understand it, by now taking control of my life and changing the basis and daily routine and going after my dreams strongly..


but when I get to talk to a woman and Im succesfully I feel happy.

Once I read that a professional stock market trader fells nothing, if you sit by his side while he is trading you cant tell if he is winning or losing because he controls his emotions - not to cloud his judgment.

So should I stop feeling happy when achieve something of value on the dating part of my life?

I like how things are going. :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt

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No,I get the same way. Its normal and fine. Just dont do anything like jump up in air and kick your legs in front of the ladies,save that for home.
 

flippinfreak

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There's a time for everything:D

You should be happy for the same reason she's happy, or something she should be happy about, and it will show...

save the joy of just talking to a girl for when she can't see you;)

*wink wink* when she turns around let loose your biggest warm fuzzy feeling smile, and than put the stone cold face back on when she looks at you

Girl: :eek: what are you smiling about?
 
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