"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how come Im happy?

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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I've read here that women are not the most important thing in life. Ok, I fully understand it, by now taking control of my life and changing the basis and daily routine and going after my dreams strongly..


but when I get to talk to a woman and Im succesfully I feel happy.

Once I read that a professional stock market trader fells nothing, if you sit by his side while he is trading you cant tell if he is winning or losing because he controls his emotions - not to cloud his judgment.

So should I stop feeling happy when achieve something of value on the dating part of my life?

I like how things are going. :cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blinkwatt

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No,I get the same way. Its normal and fine. Just dont do anything like jump up in air and kick your legs in front of the ladies,save that for home.
 

flippinfreak

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There's a time for everything:D

You should be happy for the same reason she's happy, or something she should be happy about, and it will show...

save the joy of just talking to a girl for when she can't see you;)

*wink wink* when she turns around let loose your biggest warm fuzzy feeling smile, and than put the stone cold face back on when she looks at you

Girl: :eek: what are you smiling about?
 
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