"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can you use your HB friends as PIVOTS?

Rudy_TubeSteak

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I have some fairly attractive chick friends who hang out with me a lot. Even though I am in no way attracted to them, many people find them very attractive.

I live with a couple of hotties and sometimes we all go out clubbing and hang out. Sometimes there's questions popping up from other girls asking if I'm going out with the HB...so that meant that they were interested to know if I'm single or not...cool

But apart from these lil signals...How do use them as pivots? I dont know if they are keen to be my wingwomen but I'm sure it helps.

So has anyone ever used their HB to get more interest in more ways rather than just being seen with them? Any experts out there?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rudy_TubeSteak

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Nice...

Now how do I play a situation where a girl asks if the HBfriend is my gf while my she is away...I've been asked that but got called a liar and bastard because I apparently denied it lol (she really wasnt my gf but just a good close friend)

I'll do that search asap
 

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dude, if they're hot as you say..go out ,and just have a blast with them and i can almost promise other girls will join in on the fun..it's as if beer,laughing,having a good time and being with other girls- hot girls, is like a magnet for other girls to join in! i was at a bar the other week and i seen like a group of six girls i am friends with and they were all laughing joking and all over me- next thing you know i am getting signals from the waitresses and other girls..and i didn't even have to say anything to them..at that point i didn't even know what a pivot even was,but i sure as hell knew that by being seen with all these girls and just having a blast- i just got a dozen brownie points in their eyes...just an observation..
 

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Shezz said:
- Have a kiss from a girl on your cheek, other women see the lipstick on your cheek and ask where its from =

More likely from girls who aren't 16:

"what a man wh0re. i'm not going to be his 4th girl today"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ill post more pics of me and other girls I know having fun in my msn space thing. Someone will be checking it out so I suppose they will see what kind of sh*t I get up to then.
 
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