How can you trust a woman ?

[NeverChase]

Personally I was retarded enough for 1.5 years to believe she can't be attracted to anyone else, and she wouldn't let anyone a chance to hit on her indirectly. She always acted like she's my little girl, so I didn't even imagine her feeling attraction for others. :trouble:
Realistically, unless the girl has special social problems (super snob, etc), she's unattractive, doesn't leave her house, doesn't have a facebook etc,
If she's attractive, guys with more status, game, looks, lifestyle than you will want her and will try to get her.
Even if she says she has a BF, they can still gradually attract her and get close to her, maybe even use some BF destroying stuff if they have the chance. This whole area is a huge "gray zone", there are no clear "red lines" she has to put, to make sure she won't get attracted and comfortable with anyone else. It starts with the guy DHV'ing himself, showing his lifestyle, telling some casual sex jokes, then she starts talking to him about her, without him ever crossing a clear "red line". Of course there are some betas who would cross the red lines, but they weren't a threat in the first place.

The only thing that would make me trust a girl enough, is feeling her 1itis for you through her actions - kissing your ass like crazy when you fight, giving you tons of BJs, deeply respecting you and such. Unless you have some insane qualities in you, a mature HB9/10 won't ever get such 1itis for you, she can get guys like you and better if she wants so she won't have such a scarcity mentality.

Now, unless you track her life like a maniac, or you're still in the crazy "honeymoon" period, how can you feel secure enough to not worry, when you started to have strong feeling for her?
Honestly the only answers I have is to cheat on her, to dump her when you start having feeling, to date a snob\ugly girl, or just to live with the constant fear of getting heart broken ?

 

[bigneil]

If you hold on loosely, then over time you can trust her because she will be like the stray cat in the neighborhood who has made your home their territory.

Then you have the opposite problem: trying to avoid them.

 

[Poon King]

You can trust a woman to always do what she believes is in HER best interest. That's about it.

Google "hypergamy".

 

[Soolaimon]

You can trust a woman to always do what she believes is in HER best interest. That's about it.

Google "hypergamy".

Maybe if you increased your value as man you can get better quality women.

Happy hunting!

 

[The411]

Maybe if you increased your value as man you can get better quality women.

Happy hunting!

Your increased value as a man is useless when she can find better. You increased your value for her. She doesn't care because you are a fawning beta. Your so called advice svcks azz.

 

[NeverChase]

Maybe if you increased your value as man you can get better quality women.

Happy hunting!

You think quality girls don't care about their interest ? or don't have interest in others ?

 

[jurry]

If you're not feeling the "oneitis" back from the girl then yea you shouldnt be letting your guard down or stop looking for other girls if you want. If you dont have supermodels slobbering on your balls well damn man tough life join the crew.

Of course it may be more difficult with the hottest of the hot, but the principles still hold true. Keep your cool and dont sweat them, and if you DO sweat them and get burned then admit it to yourself and move on, dont make it into this bullshît about how women cant be trusted because YOU got blinded by the pvssy.

 

[stevo]

Honestly the only answers I have is to cheat on her, to dump her when you start having feeling, to date a snob\ugly girl, or just to live with the constant fear of getting heart broken ?

Paraphrasing POOK. . . if a man doesn't have the portrait of another woman in his heart, oneitis would be the sickness.


How do you trust her? give her the benefit of doubt till she proves otherwise however don't lose sight of yourself and your self worth. Same goes for how can she trust you? if every minute you walk in panties get wet (see what I did there?)


Really often times if you keep improving yourself a girl that genuinely likes you would keep "falling" in love with you over and over.
There are a few girls that are more faithful than we give credit for but you CANNOT let yourself go, if she wants you because of your 6pack or because of your hairy chest or whatever you cannot lose that one day and expect the same affection you got when you had it.


It's inevitable to not get feelings for your oneitis if you're into her, where almost everyone fail is, the relationship become their all and all.
Your relationship with yourself should always comes first that way if you or her eventually leave after 2years or 50years you have something to fall back on while dealing with the loss.


The "no guarantee" is the curse of love. The price we all pay for the high points of our relationship, is it worth it to each his own but for me, yes it is.

 

[Poon King]

Maybe if you increased your value as man you can get better quality women.

Happy hunting!

Of course you can. But that doesn't mean you can trust them.

Have you been paying attention?

 

[Poon King]

The solution: only commit to women who have proven to you that they value monogamy for its own sake; who view monogamy as more than the sum of its parts. One necessary precondition is that the woman is able to bond via sex, which itself is preconditioned by a low (possibly zero) partnet count.

Does such a woman even exist who isn't a fat pig or hideous?

Finding a HOT woman like this is almost impossible. Too much male attention inflates their egos and makes them value men less. It also makes them respect men less because they see all the desperate and humiliating things men will do for poon.

Its like when you're a handsome rich guy and women just throw themselves at you.. desperate for your money. Makes you look down on them and not see the value. Same with hot women.

Shameful sh!t.

 

[skinnyguy]

You don't. Instead, spin plates!

 

[PeasantPlayer]

How can you trust anybody?

 

[mangotot]

How can you trust anybody?

Totally agree.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

1960 you could "be yourself" as it was trouble to find quality man, now with facebook and online dating pretty girl has hundrends, thousands possible matches,some of them willing to travel through the world for her *****.

Woman loves as long as you are her "best option". So be .That's the only thing you can do. You must not only **** her body but most important is to **** her mind. If you become submissive and show less value than her you are DONE.

Be always best option.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Does such a woman even exist who isn't a fat pig or hideous?

Finding a HOT woman like this is almost impossible. Too much male attention inflates their egos and makes them value men less. It also makes them respect men less because they see all the desperate and humiliating things men will do for poon.

Its like when you're a handsome rich guy and women just throw themselves at you.. desperate for your money. Makes you look down on them and not see the value. Same with hot women.

Shameful sh!t.

100% right ! You can get hot girl only if your value is higher than her.It basically means rich or famous or extremly alpha type like James Bond. You can hot girl only when she is stupid to hang out with you and because of mental problem didnt grasp her value, then you need to make her at least 2 babies she doesn't go away and even this is not guarantee.

Internet changed everything.The second revolution will come maybe in 20-40 years when there will be super realistic sex androids available.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Like the fate of the qing dynasty who refused to westernize/adapt as time progressed, you don't or you will get owned eventually.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Internet changed everything.The second revolution will come maybe in 20-40 years when there will be super realistic sex androids available.

nah. it's already happened:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rM...outube.com/watch?v=1rM2P1pz-jo&has_verified=1