How can you tell when a girl orgasms?

[Nobeard]

Ok today i went to my girlfriends house and for the first time was able to touch her pvssy. I was playing with her breasts and just rubbing down there and she really seemed to enjoy it.

I'm in high school and this is my first girlfriend so this is a big step for me cause its my first time ever getting this far.

Anyhow she was moaning and then her body started to tremble. It kept trembling for a while then stopped.

I was wondering did i give her an orgasm or just made her feel really good?

Also, which kind of bummed me out she stopped it after that. She did rub me downstairs for a while which really felt nice, but she just fixed her bra and everything and was just up for making out after that.

Im pretty sure she stopped because she is in high school and this is all new to her. Plus she doesnt want to feel like a slut...

But if im wrong about this, please someone correct me as to why she stopped.

Thanks guys if it wasn't for this site and the bible i wouldn't have made it this far for, probably like another 5 years, when i figured it out most of it for myself.

 

[SharinganUser]

I wouldn't really worry about it, it sounds like she had fun.

 

[MacAvoy]

With young women, its really hard to make them orgasm. Many women don't have orgasms until well into their 20's. That doesn't mean that they can't enjoy it.

 

[WC2]

It takes some experience to really know when a girl is having an orgasm. I doubt you'll notice your first or even your 4th or 5th time. After some experience, you'll get a feel for when you're bringing your girl to an orgasm. The main thing is differences in how things feel.. for example many women have no problem faking verbally, but physically you will FEEL when her body is coming to an orgasm.

 

[jamescr73]

some girls will "fake" by making all sorts of moaning sounds, but a guy that has made a girl orgasm will know a fake when he sees it. Of course a guy that knows how to deliver an orgasm, wont have a girl that fakes. When a girl has an orgasm, her body will tremble, vagina will pulsate, legs will shake, toes will curl and ive even seen girls eyes roll back in their heads. Its almost like a seizure. When a girl is on top and has an orgasm, usually her body will give out and she wont be able to hold herself up with her arms. She will usually fall onto your chest and her whole body will tremble. Its pretty wicked. I knew when my ex was about to cvm, so I could get myself ready and we had simutaneous orgasms probably 90% of the time. Its crazy.

 

[Sexual]

I don't know. I've seen extremely vivid orgasms and extremely vacant orgasms. Some women will want you see them, some women will try really hard to not let you see them. Don't ask me why--they're women. Just add lots of passion and variety and enjoy it, because some women will try NOT to even have orgasms! This is the craziest thing I've seen and I've seen more than a couple women like this. Why should you suffer? Just keep up the good work! =)

 

[IPalindromeI]

But if im wrong about this, please someone correct me as to why she stopped.

From the rubbing part, it sounds like you gave her a cl*t orgasm. After a woman has a cl*t orgasm, her cl*t is just as sensitive to touch as the head of your d*ck is after you have an orgasm. Some women can have multiples and keep going, others can't. Sounds like you gave her one, and she stopped because likely she was really sensitive to the touch. From what you posted it sounds like a success!

 

[KarmaSutra]

From the rubbing part, it sounds like you gave her a cl*t orgasm. After a woman has a cl*t orgasm, her cl*t is just as sensitive to touch as the head of your d*ck is after you have an orgasm. Some women can have multiples and keep going, others can't. Sounds like you gave her one, and she stopped because likely she was really sensitive to the touch. From what you posted it sounds like a success!

Correctamundo!

I think you gave her a mild "O" and she was too sensitive to the experience and possibly felt a little guilty.

This is social conditioning at it's worst. I'll go on a limb and say her Parents are religiously fundamental and limit the joy they have in thier own lives.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Ooh I always like this when I get physical with a girl:


She's physically so excited that she shakes every time you touch near her naughty places. I mean she literally just shakes while you hold her. Mmm I love that. No, she didn't orgasm. She was very VERY excited though.

Orgasm is much more explosive.

I'll describe to you what happens when a woman orgasms...

...her pelvic area thrashes around in violent spasms, causing small fractures in your skull from her thighs squeezing into it like a tightened fist wrapped around an egg.

Hope your good enough to have her give you a concussion.

I am. This was the cause of my mild brain damage.

Me damage brain...

haaaahh...

*drools*

 

[Sexual]

I think you gave her a mild "O" and she was too sensitive to the experience and possibly felt a little guilty. This is social conditioning at it's worst. I'll go on a limb and say her Parents are religiously fundamental and limit the joy they have in thier own lives.

EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO ME LAST NIGHT. I love how this board sometimes makes my life make sense.

Was hanging out with this girl last night, all over me after this swim in the cold pool (honestly, she like a cat and nearly suffocated me). We get back into my room, I convince her stay a while and change from the cold bathing suit into my pajamas. A little make out during Scrubs and some touching leads to the next base. First she started off really resistant, but then I started the magic with the fingers.

After like 3-4 minutes (cause five seems too long at the moment) I did a 5-10 second **** check and she was really loud, then I progressed to slow it down and go back deep to build up some anticipation.

Her thighs got tighter and began to cross and she made a weird sound, I'm guessing no longer approving of her actions. She began with a speech about how she's a good girl now since she's been in college because high school was a 'bad year', whatever that means.

I figure in one or two more 'dates' we'll be on our way to pleasure town.

PS---she's Greek Orthodox.

 

[AgentRice]

both girls iv made "o" were riding. and they completely shut down... hunched over and couldnt move.. it was fun.. iv had my ex "o" while i ate her out. she nearly broke my neck with her legs.. lol

and the last girl i ****ed wouldnt "o" but i wasnt trying to with her.. she was just there for me to get mine off.. i didnt care about hers..lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

You're never going to know for sure, thus the cliche' of the woman faking it. Sometimes you have a pretty good idea, but usually you will never know for certain. Definitely do not ask, or else she will feel like she has to say yes. As was said earlier, a lot of young girls don't cvm; it is often a learned behavior in women. It is also way more mental for them. The easiest way of making her cvm is to make her fall in love with you.

 

[Sexual]

The easiest way of making her cvm is to make her fall in love with you.

... really. I broke up with the last girl because she seemed to shady to me, but she came for the first time since the first time (after like 20 times...) on the last day we had sex.

 

[AgentRice]

You're never going to know for sure, thus the cliche' of the woman faking it. Sometimes you have a pretty good idea, but usually you will never know for certain. Definitely do not ask, or else she will feel like she has to say yes. As was said earlier, a lot of young girls don't cvm; it is often a learned behavior in women. It is also way more mental for them. The easiest way of making her cvm is to make her fall in love with you.

i can tell the real deals and the fakers.. its all in the eyes and how the body reacts.. and sadly each time the woman has finished b4 me.. she hunchs over and is drained.. im like no no no flip over... i aint done.. lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

But how do you really know she came? Did her pvssy print out a receipt?

I'm not saying she didn't, just that you never know for 100% certain. All you can have is a good guess.

 

[tj]

Isn't that white "****ty litter" stuff they leave on the bed a reflection of that..or just skanky puss?


I would like this cleared up if at all possible.

 

[mpimpin]

Isn't that white "****ty litter" stuff they leave on the bed a reflection of that..or just skanky puss?


I would like this cleared up if at all possible.

LMAO!!!

 

[faiNt`]

You're never going to know for sure, thus the cliche' of the woman faking it. Sometimes you have a pretty good idea, but usually you will never know for certain. Definitely do not ask, or else she will feel like she has to say yes. As was said earlier, a lot of young girls don't cvm; it is often a learned behavior in women. It is also way more mental for them. The easiest way of making her cvm is to make her fall in love with you.

If she squirts I think it's a sure thing

 

[Bible_Belt]

Yeah, I've never been with a squirter. My gf's best friend is one and has told her about it. I remember reading about the great mystery of exactly what that liquid is. I think it's de-ionized urine, basically piss that does not look yellow or smell like piss.

 

[shaunuk]

Haha yeah, about the lads commenting on what happens when girls are on top, I've had this experience as well As they're orgasming/about to orgasm, they bend their arms and just hunch/semi-lay over your chest instead and usually moan.

As for girls when you're going down on them or using your fingers etc...they'll sometimes curl their toes or scratch themselves from the base of the stomach upwards, or scratch your back if you're ****ing them (particularly if they're trying to be quiet)

Just my experiences..