"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How Can You Tell She Is Thinking About You!!

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I don't know ALL the signals women present, however, I do know a few. It's always good to learn what other DJs know about that sparked their knowledge to realize SHE'S THINKING ABOUT ME!!

Now, the post may have already been written and I'm not aware of this at this time. Therefore, if you know where to direct my (or our) attention, where we can read this and please do not hesistate to help me and other fellow DJs know where to find this information.

Now, you are DJing a women and she show interest because you know the signals, however, you KNOW and SEE the signals, but is she THINGKING ABOUT YOU!! Well guess what, if you know that much SHE IS THINKING ABOUT YOU.

POOK -- Talked about "Kill That Desperation"
Supreme Player -- Talked about "Is She Interested In You" excuse me if I misspelled the title.

So, what are my experiences I can share that SHE IS THINKING ABOUT YOU!!

Her: I asked Mary if she saw you lately. (Why ask Mary when she can call me, she know the number)

Her: You receive emails with downloads that's suppose to make you laugh, but you never call. However, you leave a message on her phone after the 15th email and she pops up at your desk.

That's only two examples but can ALL of you share your exeperience. And, don't forget there maybe another post out there that I did not hit and someone know where to find it. If not, please share your knowledge if you know:

We should know to give her a challenge, NOT show up all the time, NOT call all the time, NOT be underneath her all the time or NOT give her attention all the time.

But Let's share our experience when you KNEW and FELT:

SHE IS THINKING ABOUT YOU!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Personally, I don't even think about what she is doing.

I go about my business - and do what I do.

I only care about her ACTIONS.

Her actions never lie.
 

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This thread title sounds like a teenage girl made it up. Then I read the post and I realise it was indeed a teenage girl who started it.

You sound like an effeminate f*gboy.
 

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Don Juanabbe, I was not trying to make it sound like that at ALL!! Some DJs like you see right thru a women. Therefore, someone like you have the experience to pass on to the average JOE or newbies or MASTER DJs what to look for!!

What I'm saying saying is share your pesonal experience. In other words, Don Juanabbe, you have experience and share your knowledge and experience with us DJs.

Ipm sory I sound like a wimp or somenthing!! I don't want to come off like that what so ever...

ALL I'M SAYING IS SHARE YOUR YOUR EXPERIENCE AND SHARE IT WITH OTHER DJs...

WE ALWAYS NEED TO LEARN!!
 

Don Juanabbe

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No worries, I think you just worded it wrong. I got the impression of this teenage girl pining away on her bed with her stuffed animals wondering whether the highschool quarterback was thinking of her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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you'll drive yourself nuts wondering if a girl is thinking about you or not. I usually don't even care that much cause i have better things to worry about... like when these jacka$$ construction workers are gonna finally repave the road in front of my apartment!!!

You get the picture...If she's thinking about you she'll usually call you and tell you "I was just thinking about you"
 
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