"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How can you tell if a girl digs you?

Doe Boii

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How can you tell when a girl is feeling you? I read that most of the time, the girl you are attracted to, is probably attracted to you to and that there are subtle signs just as with guys. I know when i'm attracted to a girl I stare at her when she's not looking, then look away when she does (Should I do this?). So what are women's signals? How should I talk to a girl that does dig me? Now i'm NOT ugly, most girls tell me I'm "Cute" or look good even a couple "fine's". I just really don't know how to talk to girls, and kinda get a little intimidated around them, how do i handle that? sorry for all the questions I just need HELP.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GaryUranga

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Read the bible..

and.. stop looking away when girls catch you lookng at them, its weak, also, girl signs are pretty obvious, they play with their hair, act nervous, stare at you, try to talk to you.. etc
 

Doe Boii

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GaryUranga said:
Read the bible..

and.. stop looking away when girls catch you lookng at them, its weak, also, girl signs are pretty obvious, they play with their hair, act nervous, stare at you, try to talk to you.. etc
So what do I do when they catch me looking at them? Should I just smile and wave or something or what?
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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Doe Boii said:
How can you tell when a girl is feeling you?
It varies from girl to girl because some are more introverted than others, but in general, smiling a lot, laughing at everything you say (even if it's not really that funny), being really interested in what you have to say, looking at you even when you're not talking, finding excuses to play with your hair, touching your hands, teasing, twirling their hair, finding ways to stand/sit close to you...it's really not that hard to figure out.

Doe Boii said:
I just really don't know how to talk to girls, and kinda get a little intimidated around them, how do i handle that?
Talk to a girl you like just how you'd talk to one of your friends. NEVER SCRIPT WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO SAY, girls can detect this immediately. Be good-natured, have a good sense of humor, and don't take yourself too seriously. Be able to laugh at yourself and herself. For God's sake, just TALK. I know it must sound pretty daunting, but trust me, it's just a conversation! The more you talk to a girl, the more comfortable you'll get with each other and conversation will just happen. If you meet a girl and the conversation is really stilted, then just accept that she's not your type and move on.

Good luck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Willspearec

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Well what if a girl likes you, but is afraid to let you know? But she looks at you?Then what? Do you make a move then?
Cuz for all the times that a girl has liked me, she has never twirled her hair. It seems to me that girls try to make it just as subtle as possible just like guys do.
 
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