Trainwreck
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How can you meet women other than bars
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
beforeimgone
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The mall
Walmart
Library
College campuses
Anywhere that humans go
Speaking from experience
- Whole Foods (they have a juice bar).
- Natural Grocery stores (always some cute girls working there)
- Take a cooking class (or some type of class)
- Local retail stores (browse stores near where you live and find hot girls who work there)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey skinny. I'm taking up salsa again now winter is over. My last place was crap. What's the go on picking up the dance chicks? I assume you have to be a halfway decent dancer or you just look like a chump
I like salsa, after my facial, although I have to keep turning off all my jujitsu reflexes. I like Tango as well but that really seems to be for grandpas and also hard to find classes. Suggestions on another dance style that is readily available and an old crusty like me won't look too weird at?
Geez with your lip not surprised. My primary martial art is rugby league which I learnt in South Auckland playing with those likely Tongan and Samoan lads. I boxed for 2 years at a place called City gym where my coach was Moses f'alicii. My mate's a 210 kilo Taekwondo black belt. His wife's always telling me not to hurt him when we spar.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ChristopherColumbus
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Crikey.. I just met a woman at the bus stop. Was waiting for the bus, noticed her standing nearby, and asked her which number I should take. I ended up getting her number.
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Derek Flint
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Day game is way better than bars and clubs.
I have a Trader Joe's and a Whole Foods a few blocks from where I live and met my current gf at TJs.
I have a Trader Joe's and a Whole Foods a few blocks from where I live and met my current gf at TJs.
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Trader Joes is bizarre - don't like the hipster music at least at mine and overpriced as well as whole foods..
I tend to, on a twice or thrice weekly basis hit up the discount grocery stores, you know, where you have to look at the expiration date so as not to get sick. It takes longer and Poorer women are quirkier looser in my opinion. I've fvcked a few trailer park women in my life, quite a few. VERY strange times guys. I'll go down to the gutter, cause I know that, ALL women are Wh0res.
Hmm appreciate the tactic but bit harsh. All women r malleable. With leadership and persistence u can mould them to your needs. As long as u work with their primary programming.
I used to like the odd Californication style adventure. But since the meth epidemic I might give the trailer park a miss.
I used to like the odd Californication style adventure. But since the meth epidemic I might give the trailer park a miss.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
QuadDeuces
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Go travelling.