Many of the girls we date have stupid points of view. They are totally brainwashed by liberalism. Many of the girls i seriously date are infatuated with Hollywood celebrity culture. I routinely get into debates about how celebrity culture is meant to brainwash etc etc ( redpill stuff). I don't respect their intellectual capability. If true love is based on respect, how can i ever truly love a women? I need to respect a person first.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How can you love what you don't respect
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You just answered it, you cant. You just have to keep on having fun and perhaps you get lucky, but I dont think you should have this mentality as it will disappoint you most of your life.
Your job in todays society is to call and make dates about once a week until a girl falls for you and ideally starts chasing you, then you can choose to be with her or not after you have played your cards right. Thats the best thing we can do, aim for a good time with no emotions as sex is not a big deal anymore. I still struggle with my view of sex as I see it as a big deal emotionally, sort of things we just have to work on cause it will not help us.
Your job in todays society is to call and make dates about once a week until a girl falls for you and ideally starts chasing you, then you can choose to be with her or not after you have played your cards right. Thats the best thing we can do, aim for a good time with no emotions as sex is not a big deal anymore. I still struggle with my view of sex as I see it as a big deal emotionally, sort of things we just have to work on cause it will not help us.
I think its cute when women are naive.
Women are more childlike because they need to raise children. Masculine women who are smarter and more cynical than me don't really turn me on.
Why would you waste time debating politics with someone you have sex with? That's a total buzz kill.
I think it's too much pressure trying to get all your needs met by one person. Enjoy them for what they bring as they do you. If u want to talk politics we ll oblige. If u have a big brain join a chess club. For an LTR u basically need a quiet girl who enjoys just hanging. My g/f sits on the couch messaging while I m working out. I couldn't care less who she s messaging and if it's a shared social connection she ll tell me. Of course u have to be social and have interests too. But look for girls who are self entertaining.
Its ok if they are quiet and just listen to you. But when they start spouting off that social justice warrior nonsense i just cant ignore it. The girl i am with now does that. She has these stupid liberal, SJW opinions and we always get into heated debates when i try to enlighten her. It is really messing up my ability to bond with her. We have been dating on and off for over 7 years and we are thinking about getting serious but this is killing me. I want to break up with her because of it. Am i overreacting? I cant be with some one that i dont respect intellectually. I dont know how you guys do it.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The problem is that many girls are not quiet. They are very opinionated and have the most weeeetarrded SJW, liberal, blue pill opinions. You cant talk to them about history because they dont know anything but yet they have the strongest opinions about current events. I was explaining to this girl the fact that Hollywood has a liberal agenda, and a gay agenda. Many of the movies they put out are meant to push a certain way of thinking onto the public. Of course she didnt agree with this but provided no counter evidence to support her claim. Then we get into a debate. She loses. But wont admit. How can i respect a creature like this.
You two may not be compatible. It likely erases anything going anywhere close to long term unless you two just love to debate with no clear winner. Unyielding beliefs and opinions on both sides.
Respect and trust go together as a foundation for love.
Respect and trust go together as a foundation for love.
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I think you'll need to dump her. Maybe tell her why..... she may grow a brain for the next guy. But I wouldn't wait around for it to happen with you
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The problem lies with no one else but you. And this goes for the other guys on here that whine and complain about how they disagree with women's opinions. Women are what they are. Find one you can tolerate or smash and pass. Keep it moving.
Stop blaming everything on everyone else; SJW and "liberals." It has nothing to do with "blue pill opinions." I'm as red pill as they come yet still agree that women and people of color deserve basic human rights like everyone else. Don't blame others for your problems.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.