how can yoiu tell she really likes me

[joe45]

im dating a girl know and we went out like 4xs and we both accepted relationship bf/gf and i asked her for it. she says she likes me and misses me. she texts me a lot but never calls. she hold my hand and hold it tight and arm on body when walking. she lets me kiss too. we havent had sex yet and shes say not yet.

how do you know if a girl really like me genuinely and not just saying it for the sake of ego boost on her part or just saying it . how can you tell ? any clues. i just dont want to be played again like i did beefore happen to me

i asked her and she say yes i like you i think and i have feelings and she thinks about what we did (walk in park, ice cream, mall,) on the date when shes at home .

its just most girls i go out with 90% dont want to see me after the first date and this one does

 

[VladPatton]

its just most girls i go out with 90% dont want to see me after the first date and this one does

There's your answer right there.

 

[nroug7]

Judge by actions, not by words.

 

[aquilonBE]

why not move things up a notch? Dating is fine but we all know this is not the end goal. So be a man and lead her to what YOU want. If you aren't comfortable with that yet then escalate slowly and the rewards should come.

 

[BeDJ]

Do you buy a car without driving it? Sex first, then relationship.
She fυcking knows what you are after now. She will open her legs for you once you have jumped through enough hoops while still wagging the puppy dog tail. Maybe she won't have sex until marriage, until meeting her parents, until Christmas, until whatever reason. Then, sex no longer happens naturally, instead, it's a negotiation - on her terms. Sex is now a reward and she will be using that to control the relationship.

FOUR fυcking dates and you have agreed to be mutually exclusive. Have you lost your mind?

its just most girls i go out with 90% dont want to see me after the first date and this one does

Oh ok, that explains it.
Most men find it depressing to be alone when there are 'happy' couples all around them. They buy into this delusion that in order to find happiness, someone must provide it for you. You are incapable of finding happiness within and by yourself.

It's a sickening that men race through a minefield without properly examining if there are any red flags. By the time you see it, you are already emotionally committed. Suicide. HEY! It's better than dying alone...right?

You need to be emotionally distant from this relationship as much as possible for now. Work on yourself (gym, hobbies, finance, etc.) and RESET the frame in the relationship. Not necessarily to ignore her or treat her like crap. See her less, contact her less, reply to her less. She has to perceive that you have more in your life than just her and the relationship. If she does not live up to YOUR EXPECTATIONS as a girlfriend, you WILL WALK AWAY. Whoever cares the least in a relationship, controls the relationship.