How can knowing her birthday be used to your advantage?

[NewBGkid]

...IF you are not in a long term relationship...if in fact you've just recently met the girl (and her B-day is coming up real soon).

I know what NOT to do...I am so NOT buying a present...that'd feel as a step back to AFC-ness.

However you guys know how some girls will shove their birthday date in their AIM SN/e-mail. So you already know it and can somehow surprise her about it (probably before/after it). Well, any ways to impress?

Or would the best advice to that one be to pretend like you have no idea that she has a birthday unless she herself brags to you about it? And if she does I trust my C&F skills in thinking of my own uniqe response to that but I would not refuse any "classic" examples either if you guys have them ready

 

[quest]

If you talk to her on her birthday.

get this, its a ground breaking technique.

say "Happy birthday" give her a hug (+ kiss if you're that far along.) i don't think you are that far along.

i think you have "one-itus" and will never get this girl.

 

[NewBGkid]

thanks for the support

I'll be at the club sarging all night long tomorrow (8pm - 3am).

 

[Black_Italian]

Get naked tie a ribon around your self and wait in her closet. She will either have sex with you or have you arested. If your a gambling man you will do it.

Ninja Out

 

[Tazman]

LOL!!!:crackup:

 

[NewBGkid]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Get naked tie a ribon around your self and wait in her closet. She will either have sex with you or have you arested. If your a gambling man you will do it.

Ninja Out

That's pretty awesome man, I think I'll try it out [men who don't take risks are AFCs anyways]

Unlike some of the kids around this place that get all upset when they get responses like this I laughted out loud at it [after all just imagine the priceless look on her face] but I am a bit concerned - am I more anti-social than I ever imagined?

Else I must be blind to something very stupid I must have said, someone please enlighten me on what it was.

 

[Black_Italian]

honestly i dont see the oneitis and if you want to say Happy Bday but i wouldnt do it just pretend you dont know she should tell u anyway. Then say something like:

You: i got a present for you

Me: What is it?

You: Im going to lick you out (confidently with a grin on your face)

Im not joking this time actuly say it. I walys use the lick you out line in many diffrent ways.

Ninja Out

 

[NewBGkid]

I can just see the "eww" response ... but I can also see a possible spark in the eyes, a quick doubtful look on if I am being serious or not, possibly something playful as a response (no, I didn't do it just now to report what happened, I am saying this is how I visualize it) - as far as doing things, what I'll be doing is meeting lots of HBs tomorrow night in the club, I just think if things worked out with this one - great, if not, ah well ... don't worry guys, I will not fall for unessecary levels of attachment, I am aware of what that leads to very well.

 

[QuezNozet]

how about dvds?......known for about 3 weeks.......3 dates.....

 

[Kaptain]

would you expect somebody you have seen only ever 3 times to give you a birthday present???

Originally posted by quest
get this, its a ground breaking technique.

say "Happy birthday" give her a hug (+ kiss if you're that far along.)

use her birthday to your advantage and go for the snog!!! :woo:

(or at least a peck on the cheek)

 

[msg]

personally i have found numerology to be quite useful in my phone game, after i get a chicks number and email address, i will send her an email with a link to a cool or funny website and some story about something funny that happened to me recently

if she replies to the email then i call her, if she doesn't answer and i get her message bank i will usually say something like "hey, it's msg, i really need your advice on something call me ok?"

eventually when i get through to her i will usually ask her for her opinion on something stupid that one of my friends is doing, and what should i do to stop them from doing it or whatever, then i'll go into talking about something funny that has happened to me recently and then i will mention that i have been reading a book on numerology and i will ask her if she has ever worked out what her number is

numerology is based on your date of birth, and condenses it to a number between 1 and 9, so for example if you were born on the 01/01/1985 then your number is 1+1+1+9+8+5 = 2+5 = 7, each number has a personality profile which i would look up and read to her, i find it's good for building rapport over the phone and i use this over the phone only because it's hard to do this in person as you would need to memorise all 9 personality types

 

[00Kevin]

It all depends on the girl and how much of a "stuck up" b-itch she is.

There are some girls you can send flowers sent to their work and they will love you for it.

There are others (80% of them) that won't give a damn for what you do or for what you say. In fact they will most likely just drop your ass for some other guy that night.


The question you must ask is this.

1. What do you feel like doing for her?
2. Is she the kind of girl that will respect it?


Most likely she is not the kind of girl that will give two fu-cken
****s.

If you are not 100% sure that she will appreciate it then don't f-ucken waste your time or your money on her.

It is all about respect and it is that simple.

 

[zerocelcius]

at this stage of the game go with just letting her know you remembered her birth day!

Honestly girls are crazy like that. Just by letting her know by wishing her happy b-day like said before in a earlier response is best. It shows that you cared enough to remember her and that she is important enough for you to wish her happy birth day.

Wish her happy b-day with a hug and a kiss. NO presents or cards. A funny e-card if you have to send her somthing tops.