How can I tell if i have passed the "physical test"?

[trent423]

hi, i was at the mall the other day and i was working on doing some cold approaches. well i ran into a little mystery that i have been wondering about:

when i approach a girl to strike up convo with her, how can i tell if she finds me physically attractive enough? that way i won't have to waste my time trying to win the girls who don't think i'm good looking enough to even talk to them at all. i only want to talk to girls i actually have a chance with, and i have found that while some girls find me attractive, some girls don't.

 

[diablo]

Simple. If they keep the conversation going, then they're attracted. If they constantly look away from you, at their watch, or make an excuse as to why they have to leave, then they aren't.

This is related in part to the following thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66398

Incidentally, why don't you look up "non-verbal communication" on google, or anywhere else? There are thousands if not millions of sites which will tell you all of the key indicators that someone is interested in you...........

 

[trent423]

thanks! i'll do that!

your from Louisiana! I go to school over there!

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Good bodylanguage.

1.Smiles and blushes,shys away from eye contact.


2.Prolonged eye-contact,turns her body towards you.Open mouth.
She looks like she wants to fawk basically.

3.Verbal clues. They're like us..very ****y sometimes and sometimes will sleep walk through convo's and just give sexual hints.

All 3 mean she's attaracted to you.. isolate her and wrap things up quickly.

 

[karusel]

Originally posted by diablo
Simple. If they keep the conversation going, then they're attracted.

The statement above is painfully wrong, trust me. If they keep the conversation going, it is merely a good verbal compatibility sign, it doesn't exactly mean they wanna f*ck you, move to your place, get married and have 7 kids with you. It can mean that you're gonna become a good friend... while screwing is what someone else will be doing.

 

[Craig Reeves]

When approaching a woman, all you have to be is attractive ENOUGH. Which basically means you have to get at least a "C" in the looks department with her and you'll be fine, trust me. Most guys can do this with most women if they just put some kind of effort into their looks. But there is no need to kill yourself trying to look like Brad Pitt just to impress a girl.

Just because a woman doesn't want to sleep with you and have your kids within 3 seconds of looking at you doesn't at all mean that you're screwed and you have no chance with her. There IS such thing as BUILDING attraction, y'know, it just may take a bit more work than somebody who COULD make her feel instant attraction within 3 seconds of looking at him.

The best way to tell if you have passed the looks test is if you flirt with her and she flirts back. Women don't flirt with guys who have failed the "physical attraction test".