She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Make them laugh, tell stories (you can embed all sorts of feelings with stories), be a dominant man, kino her, and give them surprises. This is general stuff that any decent boyfriend/husband does on a daily basis.Originally posted by MackToBe
On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.
Honestly? Thanks for the advice. Im no playa yet but if I keep bearing these DJ techniques in mind I soon will be.
What is NLP exactly? looks like my homour could be in my favour. I always avoid the dirty jokes though when with the ladies.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A few things I've learned from David D's interview series (I'm a subscriber).Originally posted by MackToBe
On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.
Humor, sarcasm, neg-hits, are great. Don't worry about trying to be funny, say what YOU think is funny. You will find that if you LIKE a person, you'll laugh at everything they say. You will find that even the most stupidest things you will say will get a giggle/chuckle from those who like you whether it be from your fellow men or adoring women. Those who don't laugh don't really like you, and you should use that as an indicator of disinterest.Originally posted by MackToBe
On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.
I love the way my **** goes in and out of *****.Originally posted by MackToBe
On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.