"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How can I start getting the 9-10s?

Scars

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I've had no problem getting girls, but lately it just seems like my sticking point is that I'm only pulling in girls from the 7.5-8.5 range. I'd say I average at 7.5 range (which to me requires a cute face, can't be fat and at least one good asset (ass, or tits) which is usually most of the girls I sleep with), pulling an 8 sometimes and occasionally I'll surprise myself with a 9. But I want to make that more consistent. I can usually get them attracted but they easily lose interest. It seems like I've got to shotgun the hell out of them and make a move quickly or nothing will come of it. I'm starting to come to terms that I probably won't be able to date them, probably just cause of the range I'm in myself. But I still should be able to sleep with them. How do I do it? Usually the extremely hott girls I automatically assume are attention *****s, which is partly my fault. I don't even want to get involved, but if I'm not trying to date them then I don't see the problem.

I just feel really bored with where I'm at. I know I don't want a girlfriend, and I am getting some pretty consistent *****. It's actually coming in very easily to me now. But now I want a challenge. I want to start sleeping with girls that look like models or pornstars. I'm tired of settling for "cute girls" I wanna start banging the HOTT girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Game will only get you girls your level or below. Good game will get you girls a point or two above. If you want the 9s & 10s then quite frankly you're going to have to be an 8 yourself.
 

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Most of my life has been with 7 and 8s. A couple 9 and 10s though.

I'd take the 7s or 8s anyday. More good times and less bad times. While the good times are better with the 9 and aboves they don't outweigh the crapanity that comes with a beautiful woman who knows it but still wants to hear it a thousand times a day from you and once a day from every sucker out on the street. Since I don't do that, I prefer a girl who knows she's beautiful but only needs to hear it from me when the time is right.
 

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Wolf said:
OH! And make sure to show interest in her, but not in a needy-bastard way.
So, tell me, how you do this with such 9-10s. I never had a proper answer on this forum about this isue. And don't tell me to read the dj bible! It's not there and if so, show me the link.
 

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Wolf said:
Where did you get that lol?

Most guys can get a 9-10, that's most okay looking men. No troll-face is gonna get one lmao, but if you aren't a troll-face then I'd say:

Keep centred on who you are, and do NOT treat her as though she is better than you. Also try to poke fun at her a lot (IN A FUN WAY! NOT INSULTING). If you can do that, then she'll probably like you. OH! And make sure to show interest in her, but not in a needy-bastard way.
True, which is why I repped you.

But if a troll face has a 9/10, the case usually falls into one of these criteria.

1. The couple has been dating for a long time and the guy didn't always look that way.

2. The guy's rich.

3. The girl has low self esteem.

4. The girl is in a situation where she is forced to settle.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Megaman XIV

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Nutz said:
Game will only get you girls your level or below. Good game will get you girls a point or two above. If you want the 9s & 10s then quite frankly you're going to have to be an 8 yourself.
A BMW/ Mercedes can help here.
 

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Scars said:
I've had no problem getting girls, but lately it just seems like my sticking point is that I'm only pulling in girls from the 7.5-8.5 range.
I thought this was a troll when I first read it. Wow, some people are never satisfied. I can't believe you're unhappy getting 7.5s-8.5s. Bear in mind I like to use the scale where 9 is the highest because there's no such thing as a 10. Anyway, 7s and 8s are great, what's the problem?
 

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No, I'm not trolling. Haha, and yes I should be satisfied with where I'm at but what's the harm in trying to grow? From observation I'm actually noticing a lot of the hotter girls settling with guys with less than average game and it is really confusing me. Perhaps they are just tired of players? Maybe they actually want a guy who won't fvck them and leave them. I can kind of agree with Wolf, these girls are gorgeous but they still like hearing it. I've always been weird with compliments. I very rarely hand them out, only when I feel they're deserved. But I guess the girl won't know I like her unless I say something right? It's not like I can jump straight into kino, it's got to start somewhere I guess. I just feel like I have a pretty defined game right now. I can easily get girls within my range, but I feel like I have to totally take a step back and relook at how I do things if I want to take it up a notch and start pulling the super hotties.
 

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The only problem with 9's and 10's is there seems to be a lot less of them, and way more 7's and 8's.
 
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