"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bonafide

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Looking like im kissing this chicks ass. Shes new 2 the skool and shes got alotta hunters preying on her. She seems to have a ****y ass attitude as if she knows shes the shyt. I'm not trying to be just another guy to approach her and try to go out with her, because that would just make me one of "those guys." Alot of pieces of the puzzle are coming together that give me hints of her interst toward me but I get this gut feelin that she just wants MY attention. Its like she sees that Im different from all these other guys but she wants to make sure of it and who knows how long that will take and quite frankly I dont have time to wait. I feel like she just wants the attention of as many dudes as she possibly can get.


It's funny, the day I had made up my mind to be through with with her n move on was the same day I logged onto my myspace account and recieved a friend request from the same girl. I had no idea how she got my profile either. :)


I could go into deeper detail but thats probably not needed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Triple T

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Well, from what you said looks like ALOT of guys are onto this girl.
And most likely these guys are all doing the same thing = kissing her ass, being AFC and what not.

Soo...You have to be different than from all the other guys who are all oh "SO NICE" to her. You gotta be that one guy that she doesn't get AS MUCH attention from. Then she'll want the attention and start to want YOU.

tease her, make fun of her(as long as she laughs too and playful)

Example:
This one time a hot chick(HB8) in my class was wearing yellow...I was just walking by her and I stopped and just looked at her shirt.
Trip: (Smiling) You know, theres a bathroom just down the hall. You don't need to go in your shirt.
HB: (Smiles and then laughes) Your SO MEAN!!!, and then gives me a playful punch on the shoulder.
And we just had a conversation after that.

A few days later she wore the same shirt again...
So I just bugged her about how she was still going in her shirt and that she didn't wash it. Long story short...we had some more convo and I made her laugh some more.
After school I came over to her house and the rest is history;)

Also, from now on...everytime she looks or puts on that shirt she'll think of me and how funny I am and how differently I treat her.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Don't think you have to compete with other guys or you will try too hard and possibly fail. Just keep leaving good impressions and sparking interest. She will see your qualities and want more of you.
 
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RED LIGHTS

Your only talking about ONE girl. Bad bad bad. Why aren't you gaming two? three? four? Or in my case five or more? One girl leads to onitus, which leads to AFCness, which leads to suffering and some more ****. Don't just bust her ass bust the ass of every hot girl you know.
 
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I **** with other girls too but, you dont understand... this girl is brand new to the school and her presence is just different from all the other girls that I usually talk too. Seeing her makes the other chicks seem boring, shes more of a challenge. Thats what I like.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bonafide said:
Seeing her makes the other chicks seem boring, shes more of a challenge. Thats what I like.
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that right there is EXACTLY what chicks want man. You learn how to be a challenge for her, and be different that the rest of the guyss....and you'll get her. :rolleyes:
 
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Or maybe you just don't have choice. Most girls are friendly, and it wouldn't hurt to make some as friends.
 
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Make a nickname for her ASAP.Works like a charm.
 
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Potbelly

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Triple T said:
Well, from what you said looks like ALOT of guys are onto this girl.
And most likely these guys are all doing the same thing = kissing her ass, being AFC and what not.

Soo...You have to be different than from all the other guys who are all oh "SO NICE" to her. You gotta be that one guy that she doesn't get AS MUCH attention from. Then she'll want the attention and start to want YOU.

tease her, make fun of her(as long as she laughs too and playful)

Example:
This one time a hot chick(HB8) in my class was wearing yellow...I was just walking by her and I stopped and just looked at her shirt.
Trip: (Smiling) You know, theres a bathroom just down the hall. You don't need to go in your shirt.
HB: (Smiles and then laughes) Your SO MEAN!!!, and then gives me a playful punch on the shoulder.
And we just had a conversation after that.

A few days later she wore the same shirt again...
So I just bugged her about how she was still going in her shirt and that she didn't wash it. Long story short...we had some more convo and I made her laugh some more.
After school I came over to her house and the rest is history;)

Also, from now on...everytime she looks or puts on that shirt she'll think of me and how funny I am and how differently I treat her.
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Really? Sounds like a big slvt to me man. Sleeps with because you said she pissed on her shirt...nice, what a slvt.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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