"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can i overcome this drawback?

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So... Several months ago due to a little alcohol and a police officer, i lost my drivers license. (Yea i feel a little stupid, not going to lie)

Either way, i've learned to deal with not having a vehicle on the sustainability level, I.e. making it to work, school, grocery store around town etc...

and its easy for me to number close hb7 or 8ts, But i have a lot of trouble going on dates with them, without a car.

My game plan has been tell them some sob story over the phone and then say if they want to date me they have to drive.

How can i get them to drive on a date, and still be interested, without lowering my Value (around the fact that i dont have a car)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What you have to do is have them meet you at a place.. I'm the same way.. Except, I have a bike.. I pedal my way there.
 
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ha, i have a bike too, it gets me around town but it doesnt exactly have an engine with plush leather seats. have her meet me at my place? should i tell her to come over before we go out then spring it on her that shes driving?

or should we just not go out? haha. any other advice is appreciated.
 
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sorry don gorgon albeit probably true i dont like that reply. haha , my brain has convinced me that if i have enough game the girl will invest enough into me to drive over here and pick me up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damand said:
ha, i have a bike too, it gets me around town but it doesnt exactly have an engine with plush leather seats. have her meet me at my place? should i tell her to come over before we go out then spring it on her that shes driving.
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No, have her meet you at whatever place you're going. If you planned on your place, make her come there. Just tell her straight up "I don't have a car, so you have to arrange your own transportation". Be honest, it's simple and if she refuses to date you for that, then she's a ho and doesn't deserve your time in the first place.
 
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remotecontrol said:
Thats the right attitude. Your brain is doing a good job soldier.
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but im not sure i have enough game haha... none the less im going to have to learn to deal with this, so i will try.

thats a good idea, I would just straight up invite her over, but in this specific girls case it was a super casual meeting, i closed by telling her to give me her number so we could get coffee. Thanks for the advice.

p.s. remotecontrol, i think it was you who posted great boyfriend destroying responses, thanks for those! hah
 
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