"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can I NOT love this sweetie pie ?

Boilermaker

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aaah, that's why it shakes your foundations so hard. That's why you have to resolve this right? Scream it to the world. American girls stink. If it's going to make you happy, I'll say it, too. Oh, damn you have to be so right on this. You made the right choice !


Yes, yes, it will "never" change because she will never get complacent because you have only been married umm... for a year?


Well, the thing is I am probably not going to last with my girl that long, but you are stuck with yours for life.

So I do HOPE you are really right. Otherwise you are so fvcked. :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Larry Walker

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Boilermaker said:
aaah, that's why it shakes your foundations so hard. That's why you have to resolve this right? You have to be right on this. You did the right choice!



Yes, yes, it will never change because she will never get complacent because you have only been married umm... for a year?

Well, the thing is I am probably not going to last with my girl that long, but you are stuck with yours for life.

So I do HOPE you are really right.

I'm not stuck with anything for life. If she changes I'll ship her on the next banana boat back to her country.
 

Kailex

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Boilermaker said:
I have a tough Physics exam tomorrow, and she had borrowed my car for a few hours for today. I wasn't an a..hole about it, didn't ask where she was, didn't bother her every second. It was the first time she borrowed it, and I was cool with it. This culture is intrinsically so selfish that she was delighted to see I was so carefree about it. She apologized and she thanked me more than once.

A good friend gave me a ride from school to home and there she was after a few hours... Had my car washed ( it's a new car and it's got its first wash), brought me Italian food from the best restaurant in town, made me coffee, fvcked me for a good 45 minutes (yes, blowing me as well) and she went to bed to let me work in peace.

... She matured over a period of months. This girl is 19 years old. She'll be 20 in a week. Oh yes, she's one of those "white American b!tches". How could she do this? God, she's not a Latina and she did all that, can you believe it?..

Some American guys run here to report every nice gesture from foreign women, so I felt like I needed to do this just for once, for the sake of all those worthless American women.

I did this as an outsider to this culture, too, so maybe the problem is NOT solely with them.

She might be looking at the bigger picture.

If not, congratulations.
 

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I dont see what the big whoop is tbh. Most folks are on their best behavior in the beginning of a relationship. I wish you the best of luck kid, but its only been 3 months and shes still quite the youngin. As a 25 year old I tend to stay away from girls under 21/22, because they are immature and tend to get bored with people quick. Hell I did the same thing a few years back.

Plus you forget the novelty that your a dude not of this culture, which is a plus anywhere you go. Enjoy yourself but dont become complacent bro.

Peace
 
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