How can I make this chick my bootycall?

[SeymourCake]

I bought her to a fast food restaurant and we went back to the car and I start kissing her neck. She ended up giving me a BJ. She then tells me about being in a relationship with me. I don't wanna though. How can I use her as a sex partner without being in a relationship with her?

 

[SandHawk]

Be honest with her? Just tell her you aren't ready / willing to be in a relationship but that you want to continue having a sexual relationship with her. Emphasis on sexual here. No strings attached and whatnot.

However, if a girl is talking about being in a relationship after a BJ in your car, chances are she won't be interested in just booty calls.

 

[pipe007]

just play it off man.
I ve had the nicest girls asking me to be exclusive, and how I thought of them, and If I loved them, while making out or getting physical.

I always dodge the questions with, I like you a lot, but I think that would be too soon, we should get to know each other for a while, Ive been hurt in the past and dont wanna repeat past mistakes ... blah blah blah.... or I'm too involved in school this semester and it wouldn't be fair for you.... but let me get to know each other and I wanna get to the point where I really like you, then I'll ask you to be my gf. then it would be fair. lol

ive said that ... and they bought it, and I went as far as I wanted without being exclusive.

 

[tinctrar]

I hate to say it...but I would cut this one off.

I was just in this situation. I tried to be honest and tell her I wasnt settling. She started telling people in my industry that we were exclusive. We went out twice!

Think "Every Breath You Take" by the Police. Let her go and find some dude that will commit to her right away and deal with clingy issues.

Maybe after she cools down a bit you can try the FBuddy approach. But it will be weird. Trust me.