"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can I make this chick my bootycall?

SeymourCake

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I bought her to a fast food restaurant and we went back to the car and I start kissing her neck. She ended up giving me a BJ. She then tells me about being in a relationship with me. I don't wanna though. How can I use her as a sex partner without being in a relationship with her?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SandHawk

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Be honest with her? Just tell her you aren't ready / willing to be in a relationship but that you want to continue having a sexual relationship with her. Emphasis on sexual here. No strings attached and whatnot.

However, if a girl is talking about being in a relationship after a BJ in your car, chances are she won't be interested in just booty calls.
 

pipe007

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just play it off man.
I ve had the nicest girls asking me to be exclusive, and how I thought of them, and If I loved them, while making out or getting physical.

I always dodge the questions with, I like you a lot, but I think that would be too soon, we should get to know each other for a while, Ive been hurt in the past and dont wanna repeat past mistakes ... blah blah blah.... or I'm too involved in school this semester and it wouldn't be fair for you.... but let me get to know each other and I wanna get to the point where I really like you, then I'll ask you to be my gf. then it would be fair. lol

ive said that ... and they bought it, and I went as far as I wanted without being exclusive.
 

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I hate to say it...but I would cut this one off.

I was just in this situation. I tried to be honest and tell her I wasnt settling. She started telling people in my industry that we were exclusive. We went out twice!

Think "Every Breath You Take" by the Police. Let her go and find some dude that will commit to her right away and deal with clingy issues.

Maybe after she cools down a bit you can try the FBuddy approach. But it will be weird. Trust me.
 
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