I have been trying to do those really loud whistles. like the one in ghost rider when he calls the bike or when the old guy calls his horse. i really want to learn i have been practicing and have gotten nothing. i can whistle though
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.