"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How can I get rid of a Chicken pox scar?

dadmonson

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How can I get rid of a Chicken pox scar?

This thing has been botherin me sine I was 6, really its the discoloration that bothers me the most(I have brown skin and the scar looks like a black dot about the size of an eraser), and its a little indented too but that doesn't bother me. It is on my rite cheek bone below my eye(Like a beauty mark). How can I get rid of this ****?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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grr

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You know, I have a slightly crooked front tooth so it shows a gap from one angle and I've done the research to see what it would take to fix it. Once you do that and realize the reality of what it will take to get it fixed, you'll either do it or get over it. Just find the doctor's name for what you have by doing a little searching on the web, then do more research on the web using the doctor's technical name for it and then you'll find out what fixes it.

Seriously, the girls that would care much about a slight physical deformity like a chicken pox scar (even though it sounds like a mole) are retarded.

Remember as you get older things become less and less superficial because everyone gets older, and hence, uglier. So, its better to start being less superficial NOW, to get a head start on the game. The things that are relatively easy to maintain with discipline matter much more than the **** that takes expensive surgeries to remove.

Seriously, Cindy Crawford lives with a beauty mark, sam jackson has a gap-toothed smile, and there are plenty more examples. If it takes too much to remove it then AT LEAST you've done your research. If people give you a hard time to you about it you can respond with what your options are and why you choose to keep it. The deformity may as well be gone after that, in their eyes. Ignorant people can be *******s, but once you educate them they are empathetic because they have problems they wish they could easily change, too.
 

Marlimus

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vitamin E oil or pure cocoa butter. There is also an ayurvedic cream called "NO MARKS" that did wonders for me. I speak from experience. its not available in stores, order online.
 

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Sitting in the sun also helps with marks and scars, I see more marks in winter when I'm a pale brown to in the summer when I'm a dark brown.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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reyalp

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Mederma also helps with scars. I use Mederma on the scars I get on my hands at work, it works wonders.

Note: haha, owned - "This forum requires that you wait 60 seconds between posts. Please try again in 1 seconds."
 

dadmonson

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Nah those won't help because its permanent since its been there since I was 6 years old. I'm gonna ask my dermatologist about punch excision. I've read up on it and that is how people get rid of scars like mine, they punch it out and then they sew it up creating a dented line scar. I can deal with that as long as it isn't darker than my skin color. I just have problem with my scar's discoloration.
 
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