Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How can I get my girlfriend to start moving faster..(sexually)

shark

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All we've done is made out. She hasn't given/recieved oral or nething other then making out really. She isn't shy thouigh, infact, she's loud, outgoing and likes attention.

She said she wants to take things slow, but she really likes me. SHe says it AND shows it..

Do i mention it to her? how do i go about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr. Debonaire

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next time your making out, just start getting hot and heavy with her. massage her (through clothing) and if she starts getting hot then continue on from there.

you just have to get her in the mood
 

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All we've done is made out
Oh no poor you.:(

She isn't shy thouigh, infact, she's loud, outgoing and likes attention
This is just a typical example of the true underneath person.
Generally what you first encounter with a person, especially with a attractive girl ( ill take it shes attractive ) is quiet different in small and sometimes big ways.

Being alone with someone is all about trust. She has to trust you enough to let out her real self and to get intimate.
But to do this, you need to be a man, read all signals and advance slowing.

When making out it is absoulte gold for you to be the first to break away and start again. This is great and I use it all the time.
You just give off the impression that you are relaxed and you dont need it too bad.

You have to really get her turned on to go any futher. Try kissing, gently biting and smelling her neck ( this is a great one )

Moving on to bigger and better things like panties down is a very big step.
She has to have absolute trust in you and she may also be insecure about her body. A compliment would be good her. Compliment her on her body and legs.:flowers:

The one most important thing is that you must realx ok. Then when youre in then you can **** her like youve been in jail for the past 40 years all you want.:woo:

Lastly Ill say :

When a womena takes off her own panites, she feels like a slut.
When a guy takes off her panties she feels sexy.:moon:

Also never EVER thank a woman after sex ok. Jesus Christ, your bedroom is not a soup kitchen.

All the best. :rockon:
 

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Originally posted by Kleft
Also never EVER thank a woman after sex ok. Jesus Christ, your bedroom is not a soup kitchen.
...lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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