"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How can I get into state?

Vice

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I'm having alot of trouble getting in a good mood!

Music dosen't really do it.

What ways do you guys get in a good mood?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MrNotebook

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go on a long run and take a nice cool shower is an instant booster.
 

Vice

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I'm going to go do that.

Thanks. be back later with a field report lol
 

MotownMack

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^^^LOL.

Check out some Tony Robbins stuff, he covers a lot of that. I am not a master of it by any stretch, but have found it useful to a certain degree.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mavrick

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You get into state by accepting that you are not in state and stop resisting it by telling yourself you're not in state.

Being in state is coming from a place where you have the abundance. You are the one that has the value to offer.

The opposite (not in state) is caused by trying to get abundance and value from others around.

Basically, you are the life of the party.
 

Vice

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Just got back!

Legs are tired. I ended up walking/jogging the rest of the way back.

I noticed that I was more social!

I'm in a good mood right now, and about to take a ****, which will probably feel great :D
 

Alphamale1821

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for me mornings are the hardest for me to get in the state, however these thigns help.

Eating in the morning - gives me the high energy i need
Talking to warm up sets.
Working out
Music that gets you pumped
Other internal confidence boosters.
 

frisco

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I talk out loud, Video tape myself on my cell phone about my believes on women ,social dynamics, life in general.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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