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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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how can i get farther?!?! (makeout help)

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Hey guys.. I have a question that im dying for help on, so i hope you can help me out.

so my girlfriend and i have been together for some time now, both very affectionate, and have shared numerous makeout sessions. I know from reading and experiencing all the tips on how to turn her on, and i seem to get a positive response from certain stuff. Ive gone for her ass once, while she was on top of me in my car, and she seemed to be okay with it and liked it.

anyways, heres my problem. She is the very protective type of girl. I know she feels and probably wants to go farther than making out (not sex, just looking for 2nd,3rd base right now) but she has sorta put it in my mind that she wont do that stuff. I have a feeling if i can just get it going, she will love it and change her mindset completely.

so thats the question. Any tips? advice? ideas? to get her either more turned on, or to get her to feel more comfortable so i can make my way down under her shirt...?

thanks alot, i hope you guys can help me out soon
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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2 months spring last year..now were on since halloween.. much more serious this time around....17
 
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try rubbing her through her jeans or see if shell let you put your hand down her pants
 
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You've been her boyfriend for 2 months and you haven't even had sex? lol

Anyway do a search on last minute resistance and anti-slvt defense. You should get the gist of what to do.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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katatonia said:
You've been her boyfriend for 2 months and you haven't even had sex? lol

Anyway do a search on last minute resistance and anti-slvt defense. You should get the gist of what to do.
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can you summarize those two really quicky?
 
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This is easy my man.
Continue making out as you would but put more emphasis on the kino.

Rub her back to escalate to grabbing her butt > to grabbing it over undies > to bare butt.
Rub her sides and just under her breasts to escalate to grabbing her boobs (be sure to play with her bra strap) > to grabbing it over the bra > to bare breasts.
Rub her tummy to the edge of her undies and upper thighs to escalate to fingering her > to rubbing over her undies > to bare vagoo.

If it all works out and she lets you feel her up under her clothes, it's time to take off her top > bra > pants and finally her undies.

At no point should you stop kissing her unless it's unavoidable (say taking off her top).

Once she's naked you should do some heavy foreplay for a little bit.
Ideally, she would have taken off your clothes after you took off hers but sometimes she'll just go along with what you do (most of the time).

When she's undoubtedly wet, take off your clothes (don't have her just sit there whilst you get nude, either tell her to help or find a way to keep stimulating her i.e, kissing, fingering etc.

Once you are both nude, make out AND THE SEX WILL JUST HAPPEN.

If you need help transitioning between the different stages, say from being able to feel her up under her clothes to gettong her naked, simply say stuff like "arms up", placing her arms in the air and then pulling off her top.
If you're so special as to not know what to do whilst making out nude, here's a pro tip: start grinding her during making out, you'll know what happens.
 
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