Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wtf? Writing properly and using correct punctuation is not a bad thing. It doesn't mean he's uptight. It shows respect for the people he expects to read what he's writing.Originally posted by theGAME50
first of all, look at the way you typed. correct puncuation, spelling, capitialization... you only do that on school papers. not in a forum like this...
my point is, you seem like your not loose enough. relax. dont be so uptight. you are probably all proper and **** with these girls.
Internet forums and other such places where anonymous people collect at allow for weaker expression of the language. That still means that you keep some decency when you type, go look up people like mcpimp and check out Shiz Nizzle's thread for an example of what not to do.first of all, look at the way you typed. correct puncuation, spelling, capitialization... you only do that on school papers. not in a forum like this...