"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How Can I Flip The Script????

Dragoo

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How can a guy make a girl want to be more than friends with you? It always seems as if it is the guy who wants to become more than friends and not the girl. How can I flip the script?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Metaphysical

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you need to become more attractive than her.

HUMANS are programmed to find people who are more attractive than us and to replicate with them. so we are programmed to have sex with HOT women.

women are programmed to have sex with HOT men.

so you need to become at least the same level as her in terms of attractiveness.

if she is a 6ft tall blonde bombshell who walks around in Gucci, Ferragamo and Valentino, then you need to be a 6ft+ tall athletic man in good shape going somewhere in life, dressed up as a real player in Armani, Versace & Dolce

i am sorry but a 6ft tall blonde bombshell especially if she is hot, will not stick around with a clown looking pick up artist dude, unless he is famous or rich. then she isn't really attracted to him, she is attracted to his wealth.

people always want to evolve in life and grow. nobody wants to date the ugly fat short guy/girl... UNLESS she has a lot of money, that is.
 

dav27

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Why are people so obsessed with height on here? I've never seen it as an issue (unless you're extremely short). There's more than enough hot short girls anyway.
 

Rex Man

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I actually enjoy shorter girls metaphysical (in fact, most heterosexual men do....)

Dragoo....the script is done. If you're in the friends zone this movie has met its end. Move on to the next mark. That is, unless you like trying to tilt an immovable brick wall. By a man pursuing a woman after he gets LJBF'd he will began to create an ocean of self-doubt with emotional tides pulling him under until he drowns in his own frustration and futility.
 
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