"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mhs09

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Well i was getting this girl to like me and it was going good she said hi all the time and stuff like that but i told her best friend that i liked her friend and she told her and then the best friend told me that the friend said she only saw me as a friend and that she likes somebody else. so now i dont know wat to do whenever i see her she trys to avoid eye contact but i think she looks again when i pass by so wat can i do to get her to like me again?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gsxtreme1987

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There is nothing you can do to "make" her like you.
You like her, she likes sombody else. thats life. you move on.

I've beeen through that. I moved on.
It takes time.. but there is no point in wastin your time on someone who doesnt feel the same way as u.
 

supajsilver2

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first of all, use punctuation. that might help. second, find another girl, you're done with the friend of the best friend who told you that her friend only saw you as a friend etc etc etc...
 
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