"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ka_mate

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Hey,

Something that's been bugging me. I don't know how to look at threads that I've previously commented on to see if there has been any new developments.

Currently, I just search my name > Posts by Ka_mate and then go from there but there must be a quicker way.

Help a brother out?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheVirtualMind

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The main way to do that is to subscribe to the thread after you reply. Then, you will get a notice whenever someone else makes a reply. It works, but can be a pain in the @$$ when the thread gets good...Or horrible.

After you reply, go to just above the first post and look at "Thread Tools." Click on it, then click on "Subscribe to Thread."

If you want to see if there are any replies to your older posts...Well...Best way is the way you have tried.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
The main way to do that is to subscribe to the thread after you reply. Then, you will get a notice whenever someone else makes a reply. It works, but can be a pain in the @$$ when the thread gets good...Or horrible.

After you reply, go to just above the first post and look at "Thread Tools." Click on it, then click on "Subscribe to Thread."

If you want to see if there are any replies to your older posts...Well...Best way is the way you have tried.
Yep
 

ka_mate

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Thanks guys :rockon:
 

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Or you can click on New Posts at the top. It shows you all posts that have been updated since your last visit (or last time clicking that button). Then at the left, there will be an indicator if you have commented in it or not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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