Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How Can I Feel Better About My Acne???

Bigtrucker2008

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I've had pimples and such in the past, but nothing like a few months ago, when I had I breakout. I didnt understand why it happened. Why me??? I had always gotten compliments about how good I looked and such, but now all I hear a lot is how to get rid of the bumps on my face. I hate this. I haven't even taken a new myspace picture because of this. I used to get ALL KINDS of chicks. Girls that many guys wouldn't picture themselves with. But now, it's just NOT happening.

My question is, how can I feel better about having this acne??? I mean, the main problem is the spots that remain when the acne is gone. They look horrible in my opinion!!!!! I've seen WAY worse than me, but it's just the face that this wasn't on my face just a few months ago.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten

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just knowing that acne doesnt last forever should make you feel a little better.
 

ChapStick

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Go see a dermatologist... They'll help you out big time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thehexman

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One thing that really helped me is wet shaving. Remember that shaving cream or gel is a certain type of soap, and shaving is in fact a gentle skin peeling. It gets all those dead skin cells, oils, talg, whatever off your face gently. You might even want to consider getting a badger brush, those things are really fun.

Remember to use a really sharp blade though, and don't press down or you will cut off the tip of each pimple. Easy does it!
 

DrD77

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i use to have a major problem with acne too. i went to a dermatologist and its almost all gone. it was making me feel horrible about myself as mine looked so disgusting. go to a dermatologist man.
 
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